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Hello @Hivers, I share with you this reflection of my own that those of us who already have working age have asked ourselves on occasion.
As we know, our mind likes what we have already mastered and says no to the unknown just to please the ego.
We are so bombarded with fear from every side we look at that sometimes we want to take a step and want someone else to step it up with us. We don't want to fail alone, we don't want to assume our life and decisions alone, we want that if we make a mistake someone else makes a mistake with us, it's like a relief that someone else has made a mistake like us, to be able to say in case of failure I haven't been the only one.
We tend to put up with things that we dislike for the simple fact that they provide us with some kind of security, but the truth is that we 're ceasing to be ourselves with those attitudes.
In my case, I have worked in places that I'm not ready for and I can tell you that you couldn't be more unhappy. We spend all day dreaming of the possibility of one day doing what we like and time passes and we do nothing to take the first step towards our dream.
How do we know that we aren't in the right place? because we get stressed, because doing what we like it's impossible to get stressed. There can't be happiness and fear at the same time. Either you are happy or you are otherwise.
We have to become aware because we can become addicted to suffering and from this way everyone and everything has to change except oneself.
Take the opportunity to sit down and talk with yourself and have the courage to ask yourself: What do I really want for myself? And go out to conquer what was asked. Thank you thank you thank you.