When something that has been damaged is repaired, there is no evidence that it was damaged, for example a car when it has been crashed, it is sent to repair and it is painted like new, leaving no traces that it was damaged. While in the mending there are traces of wear and tear, according to the Royal Spanish Academy mending means: To reinforce with mending what is old or broken. The mending does not hide its history, it perseveres the history of the damage, but it maintains that there is still a future. In other words, the patch tells us of an opportunity. As far as clothing is concerned, no matter how deteriorated it is, it still has utility.
¿Es posible arreglar completamente lo malo que en el pasado hemos hecho, como si nada hubiese sucedido?
¿Is it possible to completely fix the bad things we have done in the past, as if nothing had happened?
No, porque definitivamente hemos dejado huellas en nuestra vida, una relación destruida, un corazón herido, un error cometido; como desearíamos hoy que nada de ese pasado que nos atormenta, hubiese sucedido. Pero eso es imposible, no solo porque tuvimos una caída en nuestra vida, sino porque esos errores dejaron consecuencias, pero la vida nunca se detiene en el pasado, existen oportunidades para tratar de dejar de seguir remendando nuestra vida.
No, because we have definitely left traces in our life, a destroyed relationship, a wounded heart, a mistake made; how we wish today that none of that past that torments us, had happened. But that is impossible, not only because we had a fall in our life, but because those mistakes left consequences, but life never stops in the past, there are opportunities to try to stop mending our life.
Cuando el pasado, te impide avanzar es necesario que te propongas soltar el pasado, como lo lograras, empezando por perdonarte a ti mismo, olvidar esos errores cometidos, y proponerte no volver a repetirlos. Es así que lograras desprenderte de ese pasado tormentoso.
When the past prevents you from moving forward, it is necessary that you propose to let go of the past, how you will achieve it, starting by forgiving yourself, forgetting those mistakes made, and proposing not to repeat them. This is how you will be able to let go of that stormy past.
Otra manera de tomar las riendas de tu vida es empezar a ponerte objetivos a corto plazo, de manera que puedas cumplirlos. Si nos proponemos a realizar nuevos proyectos podremos darle sentido a nuestra vida, si obtienes bienestar en tu vida sabrás que realmente estas en el camino real.
En fin debemos resignarnos a que las cosas que hicimos mal ya no pueden deshacerse, en vez de seguir culpándonos por haber actuado de una forma determinada, sería mejor buscar las causas que nos llevaron actuar de esa forma, seguramente si volvemos atrás encontraremos los motivos y aprenderemos de nuestros errores. Conocernos a nosotros mismos para no volver a cometer esos errores, y por supuesto mejorar en la vida, debemos aprender que los errores son oportunidades para crecer como persona.
Another way to take control of your life is to start setting short-term goals, so that you can achieve them. If we propose to carry out new projects we can give meaning to our life, if you get wellness in your life you will know that you are really on the right path.
Finally we must resign ourselves to the fact that the things we did wrong can no longer be undone, instead of continuing to blame ourselves for having acted in a certain way, it would be better to look for the causes that led us to act in that way, surely if we go back we will find the reasons and learn from our mistakes. We should know ourselves so that we do not make those mistakes again, and of course improve in life, we must learn that mistakes are opportunities to grow as a person.
Pantalón remendado.
Luego que hayas aprendido de tus errores no sigas enfocado en ellos, olvidar aquello que nos causo daño es necesario. No podemos seguir remendando en la vida, debemos enfocarnos en no cometer esos errores que han marcado nuestra vida para siempre. Enfocarnos en el futuro debe ser nuestro nuevo punto de vista.
Espero que con estos consejos. decidas levantar tu vista, para pensar y mirar el entorno que te rodea.
After you have learned from your mistakes do not keep focusing on them, forgetting what caused us harm is necessary. We cannot keep mending in life, we must focus on not making those mistakes that have marked our life forever. Focusing on the future must be our new point of view.
I hope that with these tips you will decide to raise your eyes, to think and look at the environment around you.
