Hola mis Hivers espero se encuentren genial, hoy quiero compartirle un tema que me ha llamado mucho la atención y es la actuación de muchos hombres al pasar los 40.
No todos son iguales y no ha todos le pega esta crisis de la mediana edad, pero tengo dos amigos en particular quienes a sus cuarenta y tantos años nunca antes habían tenido tanta suerte con las mujeres como ahora.
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Hello my Hivers I hope you are feeling great, today I want to share with you a topic that has caught my attention and that is the performance of many men when they turn 40.
Not everyone is the same and not everyone is hit by this mid-life crisis, but I have two friends in particular who in their forties have never been so lucky with women as they are now.
Siempre creyeron que al entrar en años asentarían cabeza ya que por su edad ninguna jovencita les prestaría atención y ha sido todo lo contrario.
Este fin de semana me reuní con ellos, les comente que escribía para Hive y se maravillaron contándome sus anécdotas para que las compartiera.
They always thought that as they got older they would settle down as no young girl would pay attention to them because of their age, and it has been quite the opposite.
This weekend I met up with them, told them I was writing for Hive and they were amazed to tell me their anecdotes for me to share.
Ellos se dedican al transporte pesado, viajan constantemente y a pesar de la crisis que vive mi país ellos siempre cargan “dinerito” producto se su trabajo, cosa que a muchas mujeres las vuelve loca.
A sus novias no les importa si son o no casados, si tienen o no familia, mientras ellos le den “Amor” y les den su platica ellas no protestan.
They work in heavy transport, they travel constantly and despite the crisis in my country they always carry “money” from their work, which drives many women crazy.
Their girlfriends don't care if they are married or not, if they have a family or not, as long as they give them “love” and give them their money, they don't protest.
En el caso de mi amigo Yonas, ya cumplió sus 46 años de edad, es agraciado físicamente, su personalidad actual le ha ayudado a conseguir muchas mujeres con facilidad a quien le dobla la edad en la mayoría de los casos.
Su tipo de trabajo le ayuda a poder estar fuera de su casa sin horarios establecidos y hacer de las suyas, a sus novias le encanta irse de viaje con el, y por lo general tanto Yonas como su amigo cargan a una en cada viaje.
In the case of my friend Yonas, he is now 46 years old, he is physically graceful, his current personality has helped him to get a lot of women with ease who are twice his age in most cases.
His type of work helps him to be able to be away from home without set hours and do his own thing, his girlfriends love to go on trips with him, and usually both Yonas and his friend take one with them on every trip.
En el caso de Yonas tiene una extraña relación con la “tóxica” de su mujer como el mimo la llama, ella es la mamá de su único hijo, lo que ayuda a que ella lo manipule constantemente usando al niño de por medio.
Actualmente viven en casas separadas, en estados vecinos, lo que le da la oportunidad de dormir a diario en su apartamento con su vecina y novia formal de tan solo 20 años, ella lo acompaña para que el no duerma “solito”.
In Yonas' case he has a strange relationship with his “toxic” wife as he calls her, she is the mother of his only son, which helps her to manipulate him constantly using the child as a means.
They currently live in separate houses, in neighbouring states, which gives him the opportunity to sleep daily in his flat with his neighbour and formal girlfriend of only 20 years, she accompanies him so he doesn't sleep “alone”.
Mientras tanto Yonas no pierde la oportunidad de atacar a la primera que le atraviese y el vea simpática para poder lucir, anteriormente Yonas era un hombre tímido y reservado, nada de lo que muestra hoy en día.
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Conversando con mi amiga María Angelica Prada, especialista en Comportamiento Humano, me comentan que muchos hombres cuando pasan los 40 años tienden a caer en la conocida “crisis de los 40” actuando como si en realidad tuviesen 20, atreviéndose ha hacer cosas que incluso no hicieron a esa edad.
Meanwhile, Yonas doesn't miss the opportunity to attack the first woman who crosses his path and looks nice so he can show off, previously Yonas was a shy and reserved man, nothing like what he shows today.
Talking to my friend María Angélica Prada, a specialist in Human Behaviour, I was told that many men over the age of 40 tend to fall into the well known “40s crisis” acting as if they were actually 20, daring to do things they didn't even do at that age.
“Muchos hombres pasan por ese proceso y quieren impresionar a muchas mujeres, se sienten galanes y hacen ver que nada les afecta, sin embargo, en su mayoría ocultan una gran inestabilidad emocional”, comentó la especialista.
Eso de querer a una y a otra, mientras lucen a otra, parece un trabalenguas jajajaja, es para demostrarle a los demás que él a pesar de su edad tuvo la suerte que una jovencita le prestara atención, porque ellos más que quererlas solo las lucen, como mostrar un trofeo.
“Many men go through this process and want to impress many women, they feel gallant and pretend that nothing affects them, however, most of them hide a great emotional instability," said the specialist.
It seems like a tongue twister, it's to show others that despite his age, he was lucky that a young girl paid attention to him, because rather than loving them, they only show them off, as if they were showing off a trophy.
Sin embargo e evidenciado como esa seguridad merma cuando éste queda sin dinero, cayendo rápidamente en depresión tras sentir que nadie lo mirará por no tener poder adquisitivo.
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La especialista comenta “en estos casos el no es un hombre seguro como aparenta ser, él es de los que piensa en cuanto tienes, cuanto vales y al no tener dinero se siente menos que muchos hombres".
However, it has been shown that this security diminishes when he runs out of money, and he quickly falls into depression after feeling that no one will look at him because he does not have purchasing power.
The specialist comments “in these cases he is not a secure man as he appears to be, he is one of those who thinks about how much you have, how much you are worth and by not having money he feels less than many men".
Agregó la Especialista que se trata de un impulso emocional, en su caso él no es lo que conocemos como un “macho alfa", él se rige por el momento, es machista porque tiene el concepto de que las mujeres deben estar en la casa y el marido sea el proveedor, al ver que no tiene como proveer cae en depresión y siente que no vale nada.
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Estos hombres por lo general tienen un patrón de mujeres, es como si la mandaran a hacer, mujeres que no trabajan, no estudian, sólo esperan a que ellos aparezcan con los "verdecitos", una botella, una comida, sexo y ya.
The specialist added that it is an emotional impulse, in his case he is not what we know as an "alpha male", he is ruled by the moment, he is macho because he has the concept that women should be at home and the husband should be the provider, when he sees that he does not have the means to provide he falls into depression and feels that he is worthless.
These men usually have a pattern of women, it's as if they were sent to do it, women who don't work, don't study, they just wait for them to show up with the green stuff, a bottle, a meal, sex and that's it.
Yonas anda con su novia de arriba para abajo mientras su mujer no está, mientras a toda la que consigue mal parada no pierde la oportunidad de lanzarles un piropo, Yonas dice que el no deja de pedir porque uno no sabe cuando están por darle.
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En el caso de mi amigo Andrés, tiene una mujer con quien vive y tiene una novia formal a quien le paga todos sus gastos incluyendo gimnasio, residencia y universidad, todo para tenerla contentica y lista para esperarlo. Me cuenta que las mujeres le llueven, incluyendo se ha relacionado más de la cuenta con las mujeres de muchos de sus trabajadores, vecinas, amigas, solteras, casadas y pare de contar.
Yonas goes up and down with his girlfriend while his wife is away, while he doesn't miss the opportunity to give her a compliment, Yonas says that he doesn't stop asking because you don't know when they are about to give it to him.
In the case of my friend Andrés, he has a woman with whom he lives and has a formal girlfriend to whom he pays all his expenses including gym, residence and university, all to keep her happy and ready to wait for him. He tells me that he has been showered with women, including more than enough relationships with the wives of many of his workers, neighbours, friends, single women, married women and so on.
Ambos amigos se reúnen a contar sus anécdotas con las mujeres e incluso se ríen de todo lo que inventan al salir a buscar "noviecitas".
Recuerdo una canción que dice "yo he visto muchos viejitos con esos pelos blanquitos malogrando corazones" y en eso anda este par, están en su mejor momento, y es que a muchas mujeres les encanta un hombre mayor, seguro y estable económicamente aunque en realidad está sea una fachada que le muestran a muchas mujeres y en el fondo solo son hombres asustados viviendo un momento, con miedo que se en cualquier momento se les acabe y como nada dura para siempre aprovechan el ahora.
Both friends get together to tell their anecdotes with women and even laugh about everything they invent when they go out looking for "girlfriends".
I remember a song that says "yo he visto muchos viejitos con esos pelos blanquitos malogando corazones" (I've seen a lot of old men with those white hairs spoiling hearts) and that's what this pair is doing, they are at their best, and many women love an older, secure and financially stable man although in reality this is a facade that they show to many women and deep down they are just scared men living for a moment, afraid that at any moment they will run out and as nothing lasts forever they take advantage of the now.
Está necesidad de recibir atención y sentirse queridos refleja la profundidad necesidad de atención de este par quienes cuadran sus embustes de una forma tan espontánea donde cada unos muestran tener más de la cuenta, lo que engancha a más de una cuenta que busca quien les resuelva la vida.
Anécdotas, a título personal considero que ambos amigos reflejan la necesidad de atención que padecen y buscan ser en la calle quienes no pueden ser con sus mujeres, ya que delante de ellas ser de conducta intachable, seamos coherentes en nuestro decir y hacer. les comparto está historia con mucho cariño, su amiga y Periodista 
This need to receive attention and feel loved reflects the deep need for attention of this pair who square their lies in such a spontaneous way where each of them shows they have more than enough, which hooks more than one account looking for someone to solve their life.
Anecdotes, personally I consider that both friends reflect the need for attention they suffer and seek to be in the street who can not be with their women, because in front of them be of impeccable conduct, let's be consistent in our words and deeds. I share this story with much affection, your friend and journalist
Las imágenes fueron extraídas de pixabay, los nombres fueron cambiados para proteger la identidad de los personajes, mi idioma natal es el español por lo que me apoyo con el traductor deepl para la versión en ingles.
The images were extracted from pixabay, the names were changed to protect the identity of the characters, my native language is Spanish so I use the deepl translator for the English version.
