Es muy cierto que muchas veces el vecino es el familiar más cercano que tenemos, sin embargo muchas veces esto puede jugar en tu contra.
Tal es el caso de una amiga quien recientemente se acaba de mudar a un apartamento en “La Gran Victoria” ella estaba muy contenta porque le tocó planta baja, es un urbanismo relativamente nuevo, de la Misión Vivienda, ella tiene poco tiempo de mudarse y tiene pocas amistades.
Cuando se mudó muchos de sus nuevos vecinos salieron sin disimulo a ver la mudanza, todos observaban como el que presencia un concierto, sin embargo nadie la ayudó y no porque estaban ocupados si no que le causaba molestias que la nueva vecina tuviese cosas mejores que ellos.
A mi amiga le sorprendió la poca consideración de ellos viéndola sola junto a su hija bajando las cosas, sólo tuvieron ayuda del señor quien transportaba la mudanza ya que mi amiga es divorciada.
Al poco tiempo las jovencitas del edificio comenzaron a ver con mala cara a la hija de mi amiga, tras los continuos comentarios que escuchaban de sus padres, tachándola de rica y de que se la quería dar de gran cosota porque la niña se mantenía en su casa y liceo.
El lenguaje vulgar de los vecinos fue una de las cosas iniciales que molestó a mi amiga, en ese edificio se desplazaban los vecinos de piso a piso viendo que hacían los demás, iniciando iban a cada rato a pedirle cualquier cosas prestada a mi amiga, en una oportunidad cuando la visitaba llegó una vecina a pedirle un tobo prestado y detergente, minutos después mando a pedirle el cepillo de lavar y cloro, mi amiga muy amable le sirvió, yo bromeando le dije “si quiere que te traiga la ropa y se la lavas jajaja”.
Pasadas las horas la vecina le mando a pedir un caldero prestado y que le regalara aliño, minutos más tarde mientras conversábamos y tomábamos café la misma vecina vino al sentir los olores de café, no obstante al regalarle un poquito se acerca el marido, quien desde la puerta conversaba con otros quienes iban subiendo las escaleras y este les ofreció café como si fuese de él.
Todo el café que teníamos estipulado para pasar el día, mi amiga me había invitado a su casa para que la ayudara con la decoración, estos vecinos se instalaron, a los pocos minutos mandaron a pedirle hielo y a guardarle unas cosas en su nevera.
Y mi amiga para no ser odiosa fue permisiva, a los pocos minutos estaban instalados en la sala sin que les dijeran pasa y mandando a poner canales de televisión ya que ellos no tenían tv, mientras que su hija ya estaba metida en el cuarto de la hija de mí amiga curioseando.
Mi amiga no tenía como sacarlos de la casa, luego con el tema de las clases a distancia mi amiga les prestaba la computadora para que investigaran las tareas sin embargo eso era lo que menos hacían, mi amiga se sentía abrumada porque apenas llegaba cansada estos se instalaban en su casa.
Cuando mi amiga comenzó a cortarles la estadía y a limitarles la computadora comenzaron los problemas, la hija de 12 años de los vecinos insultó a la de mi amiga ofreciéndole golpes y demás, luego su mamá fue a amenazar a mi amiga de que si su hija salía raspada en el liceo ella iba a pagar las consecuencias por no prestarle la computadora, ofreciéndole golpes y pare de contar.
Un día después el marido de la vecina le dio un insulto a mi amiga porque en la nevera de ella estaba una comida guardada de ellos y por ella estar trabajando estos no pudieron cocinar a tiempo, lo que obligó a mi amiga a romper todo tipo de trato con estas personas, le dije “no le continúes sirviendo porque son malas personas, esta es tu casa y tú decides que se hace y que no aquí”.
Luego de esto al regresar del trabajo mi amiga observó que el cable del internet se lo habían picado, días después le metieron una llave en la reja de su puerta y la partieron adentro, obligando esto a tener que pagar un cerrajero y sacar dinero de donde no había, aquí les cuento sólo una anécdota de lo que es tener malos vecinos, pero este tema pica y se extiende.
Yo te recomiendo mantén el limite con tus vecinos, sobre todo cuando te das cuenta que son malas personas, si es cierto que hay muchos buenos vecinos y pueden ser un gran apoyo pero cuando ya vez el nivel poco nivel cultural de tus vecinos lo mejor es apartarse, y no se trata de no hablarle a nadie y vivir en una burbuja, sólo que cuando es algo que afecta a tu núcleo familiar es mejor mantener la distancia y conservar la educación.
Con Amor
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English versión
Abusive neighbors, do not give him a place in your house, you have suffered from having a bad neighbor
It is very true that many times the neighbor is the closest relative we have, however many times this can play against you.
Such is the case of a friend who recently moved to an apartment in "La Gran Victoria" she was very happy because she had a ground floor, it is a relatively new urban development, from the Housing Mission, she has little time to move and has few friends.
When she moved many of her new neighbors came out to see the move openly, they all watched like someone who is witnessing a concert, however no one helped her and not because they were busy but it caused her discomfort that the new neighbor had better things than they did.
My friend was surprised by their lack of consideration, seeing her alone with her daughter putting things down, they only had help from the man who was transporting the move since my friend is divorced.
Soon after, the young women in the building began to look at my friend's daughter with a frown, after the continuous comments they heard from her parents, calling her rich and saying that she wanted to give her a great deal because the girl stayed in her home and high school.
The vulgar language of the neighbors was one of the initial things that annoyed my friend, in that building the neighbors moved from floor to floor seeing what the others were doing, beginning to go all the time to borrow anything from my friend, in An opportunity when I was visiting her, a neighbor came to ask her for a borrowed slide and detergent, minutes later I sent for the washing brush and bleach, my friend was very kind to her, I jokingly told her "if she wants me to bring you your clothes and have them for her. you wash hahaha”.
After hours the neighbor sent her to borrow a pot and give her some dressing, minutes later while we talked and drank coffee the same neighbor came when she felt the smells of coffee, however when she gave her a little, the husband approaches. the door was talking with others who were going upstairs and he offered them coffee as if it were his.
All the coffee that we had stipulated to spend the day, my friend had invited me to her house to help her with the decoration, these neighbors settled in, after a few minutes they sent to ask her for ice and to put some things in her fridge.
And my friend was permissive in order not to be obnoxious, after a few minutes they were installed in the living room without being told to come in and ordering to put on television channels since they did not have a TV, while her daughter was already in the room of the daughter of my friend browsing.
My friend had no way to get them out of the house, then with the subject of distance classes my friend lent them the computer so that they could investigate the homework, however that was what they did the least, my friend felt overwhelmed because these were hardly tired. they installed in their house.
When my friend began to cut their stay and limit their computers, the problems began, the neighbors' 12-year-old daughter insulted my friend's daughter by offering blows and so on, then her mother went to threaten my friend that if her daughter would go out Scraped in high school, she was going to pay the consequences for not lending him the computer, offering him blows and stop counting.
A day later, the neighbor's husband gave my friend an insult because in her fridge there was a food stored from them and because she was working, they could not cook on time, forcing my friend to break all kinds of I deal with these people, I said "do not continue serving them because they are bad people, this is your house and you decide what to do and what not to do here”.
After this, when she returned from work, my friend observed that the internet cable had been bitten, days later they put a key in the gate of her door and they broke it inside, forcing this to have to pay a locksmith and get money from where There wasn't, here I just tell you an anecdote about what it is like to have bad neighbors, but this issue spikes and spreads.
I recommend you keep the limit with your neighbors, especially when you realize that they are bad people, if it is true that there are many good neighbors and they can be a great support but when and when the low cultural level of your neighbors is the best move away, and it is not about not talking to anyone and living in a bubble, only that when it is something that affects your family nucleus it is better to keep your distance and keep your education.
With love
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