Dear Ganja farmer, i don't know the back story and don't wish to delve into it. It is good however to always bear in mind that no-body knows from where the actions of another body spring, what trauma and brainwashing they have gone through, so we are never able to correctly judge the person, although we can judge their actions as being good or bad, but still that is only from our point of view. It has been said (by Marriane Williamson if i remember correctly) that everything a person does is a cry for love.

In my experience, and as taught by enlightened beings, it works better if we are able to say what we feel we need to say in a kind and gentle way as possible, even if it's our attempt to try to wake someone up. i think it's better not to use ad hominems (name calling), instead just to focus on the facts.

An old proverb, the three gatekeepers of the tongue, says before we speak we should check:
Is it true?
Is it necessary?
Is it kind?

i too sometimes, often even, think i need to say something when i judge the actions of another are harmful to others, as i did yesterday in this reply to Hive account@drjaydr
@jaydr/cancer-nothing-to-fear-just

Still, my words were not perfect, but i thought it fulfilled the first two (yet still i might be wrong, although i doubt it), and hopefully the third, but could have been better.

Peace be with you brother.

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