Marriage is the union of two individuals who are willing to understand each other, be patient, tolerate each other and have the same goals in life.
Love comprises of emotions that are shared by two people who have come to understand each other and want to help each other grow and are willing to support each other in so many ways.
Love is a beautiful thing with the right person, and some are fortunate to have beautiful experiences in their love life and others are unlucky when the matters of love are involved.
Have you ever fallen out of love before what does it mean to love someone so deeply and fall out of love with them in the long run.
So, I got into a relationship with a man I met during a church summit, and we connected instantly, and we gradually got to know more about each other, and it wasn’t love at first sight. It came along the line, and it blossomed into something beautiful. We dated for 3 years with a lot of ups and downs; there were times we stopped talking for some time and yelled at each other. There were times we couldn’t tolerate each other and despite all the struggles we made it down to our engagement and we finally got married and then everything snapped.
One month into our marriage as newly wedded couples I realized something I wish I realized earlier. I just realized I had fallen out of love with my husband so devastating how do I tell my husband I no longer love him.
A matter like this is very sensitive and should be handled carefully. Firstly, I would sit down to think about the circumstances that lead to me falling out of love with a man I made up my mind to spend the rest of my life with.
And I realize that all that I’m finding out to that I just can tolerate living together with him, being with him doesn’t give me joy or make me fulfilled anymore. I realize I don’t like the fact that he doesn’t help me around the house and the way he doesn’t show the affection he once showered me with.
So, I try to make out a perfect time to discuss this with my husband and we sit down and have a deep conversation, pointing out things we see as a problem in the marriage that could have led to us drifting away from each other emotionally.
Divorce is something I have made up my mind not to indulge in as I am someone who always believes that things can be sorted out by two mature adults who decide to be with each other.
So, after the heart-to-heart conversation we both must agree if we want to continue the marriage or not and we should also go through our mistakes and make corrections to be more accommodating towards and keep our differences aside and rekindle the love we share.
My next action will be to rebuild my marriage and make sure the cracks in my marriage don’t come up again. Love is a beautiful thing and should be reverend.
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