The world is now in the technological era and we can find so many things online. It’s even possible for us to start dating someone whom we’ve never met in real life before. Technology has at least helped us to achieve that part by making things easy for us.
This is why we see that some people broke up with their lover today and in the next few days, they are back with another person entirely and that’s because they are open to meeting different people so they can always dump and pick people however they like. It’s sad but it’s the reality and we even tend to see that so many people love to jump into relationships.
When we’re talking about jumping into relationships, it’s almost the same thing as bumping into someone. You never expected it but it just happened unknowingly which is a normal thing.
Due to the fact that those people jumped into relationships, it is easy for them to forget the things that are very necessary or important for them to call it a go since they’re didn’t plan it in the first place.
Unfortunately, a lot of people get to realize on the long run that they are not medically compatible with their partners which will cause them to leave the relationship and begin a new one. Sadly, it is not always easy especially when you are used to that person and you have gone far with that person.
Some people might have even gotten married and have a child until they realize that their child is a sickle cell patient and go for genotype check ups before they realize that they are not compatible. Going separate ways for such people may be a very big challenge because it may be very difficult for them to do so.
What advice will I give to lovers in this situation?
This may be a very sad news but it is possible to let go especially in the aspect of the genotype. Letting go may be hard because you’d miss the person and may cry your eyes out but it is better than everlasting cry. It is better than spending all of your life savings on a child and you may not even be able to use your money for so many other things.
Leaving such a partner is better than having a child who will continue to give make you feel down emotionally because of the sickle cell crisis all of the time.
Also, try to get over it very fast when you leave. If you get to meet with another reasonable person, this is the same thing they will tell you and in the future, you’d get to realize that you got the best advice ever.
When is the right time for lover to check their medical compatibility?
You never can tell if you have a future with someone immediately you meet them so it isn’t possible to run the test immediately after you meet.
The best thing to do is go for the medical compatibility check up when you realize that you two are getting serious. That’s the best time to go for the medical compatibility test.