I have been in that situation, funny how I didn't even apologize despite feeling bad but on the other hand someone needed to say it to her.
I have a friend who doesn't heed any advice at all. She is always feeling that she is bigger than everybody. Always talks to everybody anyhow and when you try to correct her, you become her enemy immediately. It's even worse that nobody has been able to stand up to her like say na juju.
One day we all decided to have a girl's hangout.
Me, Nkechi, Ruby, Flora, and Faith.
We gathered our money together and put it in her account for the hangout, we paid 20k each. When we got to the eatery, we already had an agreement about what we were going to buy so that we could have fun to the fullest.
I ordered rice and moi moi with water, then Nkechi ordered rice and salad with minerals, Ruby ordered garri and soup with water, and Flora ordered porridge plantains and water. It got to faith turn to order, next thing we saw her boyfriend with his friends and her sister.
Flora asked her why are they there. She said to have fun casually, they sat down and we all exchanged pleasantries. She called the waitress to take their order. We were all unhappy because why not, we all agreed to hang out alone she had to invite her boyfriend and sister and boyfriend's friends, it's not the first time nor the second time.
After Everybody had finished eating, she called the wait to bring the bill. Ruby said Bill, we are not done now. She asked Ruby if she still wanted to eat as big as she was, and she tried the watch her weight before she burst, Nkechi asked her what was bringing that insult and she turned to look at Nkechi from head to toe and ignored her.
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She paid the bill and asked that we all go. As we came outside the restaurant, I asked her, where we heading next, and she said home, I was like home for what, that wasn't our agreement. She said she have exhausted her budget for the day, I was pissed, then asked her which budget we contributed money to come and have fun and you are telling us to go home as our mama or big sister, I hope you are joking. I said smiling, thinking it was a joke but she told me that she was not joking, that we were leaving.
I told her am not done having fun, she asked me if my house was biting me, if to said I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't even want to stay outside. Get good character, una go say No. I was really angry immediately flora told her to shut up, doesn't she know that her character smells? She doesn't even know what her boyfriend saw in her, she said good character. I told her I don't think your boyfriend knows that you are bed-wetting and doesn't know how to cook and always buying food outside, pretending to be the one that cooked it. I told her it was her mannerless attitude that got her sacked in the office and she wanted to talk about character, I told her she has zero characters and she is classless, she who borrows clothes, wigs, and shoes, who is never content with what she has, wants to talk to me about character.
Everybody shouted what. She couldn't cook, her sister was ashamed and the boyfriend was dumbfounded, she was quiet too. I told her that if nobody had ever spoken to her, let me tell her to change that nasty attitude and stop trying to control everybody and boss everybody around. I told her to transfer my balance back now, which she did, I walked out with the girls, leaving her and her group of invitees. I later found out that the guy left her because of what I said, although I felt bad that girl has always had a way of making someone feel small.
We ended our friendship.
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