Would you call yourself a social person or not? As a social person, how are you able to keep up with your activities and maintain your social life? As a non-social person, are you comfortable with it? Is there any way it has affected your relationship with others?
As an individual, I would certainly not refer to myself as an unsocial person. I might not be a hyper laud person, but I am a type that loves associating a lot. Due to my personality, I am a type that easily make friends. I make friend with almost every individual I encounter, most especially the female ones😀. I know some would have condemned me to be a womanizer in your mind, but that is certainly not the case. I think it is just natural for men to get attracted to women and women to men, and that is certainly the reason behind me making more of female friends😜.
As a growing child, I was not always like this; I was a shy kind of boy. I find it hard to approach people first, but when they finally approach, I will become as free as a bird around them, the whole shy nature will all of a sudden disappear. Another prominent fact about my childhood social life is the fact that I was very shy of girls. As a teenager, I never for once summoned the courage to hold a girl by her hand or hang my hand over a girl's shoulder. It was that bad. Apart from my class mates, my sister and some female friends who I am really close to, I was unable to relate with random girls at ease.
The improvements in my social life are shocking even to me. All of a sudden I escaped from being a timid young guy to becoming a hyper social guy. The most shocking of it all is how free I have become around ladies, I have grown to the extent that I can begin a conversation with a lady I have never met in my life. That for me is really amazing, and only my childhood friends will understand why I said so.
Generally speaking, I live a very social life. I got to make new friends, communicate with people at ease and mingle with almost every one I come across. But I have got just one problem, keeping long distance relationship. The only long distance relationship I have successfully kept is that of my girlfriend. I would have loved to say more about her amazing personality, but that will be topic for another day. Given my inability to keep long distance relationship, I have lost so many friends than I can remember. It is always the case that I leave behind every friend I made once I am leaving a particular location. Sometimes, I even find it difficult to maintain relationship with friends that are in the same city with me just because they are quite distanced from me. The fact that I have that fault of mine is a good news, and I am working towards getting rid of it with all seriousness.
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