Hello Hivers 🥰
Society for all I know decide on their own to accept whatever thing they see or hear about someone as something true even without them getting close to the so called person, they just conclude and that's final.
As a person have always and will always not allow what ever thing anyone thinks or hear about me define who I am, because I don't plan on living my life base on how people want it or act on what the society think it best for themselves, not because I want to act naughty, bad or whatsoever. Have always known who I am and right from time I tend to do that which I know is best for me and have never doubted the fact that with the upbringing discipline, morals and values have gotten so far from my parent and their teaching will make me want to act otherwise. Society on its own will want you to do otherwise,it only takes the grace of God and how well you are able to overcome.
I could remember vividly of someone that newly moved in to our neighborhood,with the persons he associated himself with already made him believe I bullshit people ( I snub). But unfortunately we coincidentally bumped into eachother when I went to a grocery store to get something,I got what I wanted as I was about leaving he said hi to me I said hello to him afterwards his like he never thought I would answer him because for all he knows I don't associate myself with everyone in the neighborhood and for what he heard I snub. I just laughed and replied him why will you say hi to me and I ignore you it just an innocent greeting. We spoke for awhile and I made him understand that not everything you hear about someone is true only when you get close and have a one on one conversation with the person you can actually tell,but mind you some persons can choose to pretend for reasons best known to them.
But for me I rather not allow whatever thing they might have said about me define who I am,at that time he understood immediately.
In the society we are now many people get different stereotypes about someone it can be negative or positive,but as humans we should learn not to judge by just physical appearance. For all I know not everybody loves you but rather we should just be careful, most people can just choose to keep you as their enemy even without you doing anything even with your good deeds they are still not happy.