Alright so for me that one thing gives me a total sense of a peace of mind is how serene, quiet , calm my surrounding is.....
Here's what....
Yesterday I had a very small misunderstanding with my roommate, whenever I'm in the room I love the atmosphere to be calm, quiet with the blinds down, cause thats the kind of atmosphere that helps my mind to relax and I'm able to concentrate and stay focus on what I want to do, my friend entered the room and open up the blind that got me me vex up and I shouted at him....
What gives me peace of mind is when everywhere is calm, quiet this helps my mind a lot to relax and reflect, I love to reflect a lot most times not just to reflect but to help me think, it helps me focus and concentrate.
I love to work when it's calm and peaceful, now if you're a writer like myself you will understand this better, I hate noise, I hate where is lousy, I hate distractions because its seems to juggle my mind out of focus.
While my roommate is the exact opposite of me, noisy, plays loud on the speakers... i will walk out of the room to somewhere very quiet...
I'm the kind of person that can stay up in a room for the whole day without stepping out or talking to anybody, I just love my comfort, my quietness, serenity of my entire space, it heals my mind and keeps me away from the noisy distractions, huzzling and buzzling of the outside world, away from the confusion and noisome pestilence.
While I'm curled up I'm actively engaging my mind, not laying whiling away time but actively engaging my time utilizing the power of the mind startegising, projecting, forecasting or just working on my phone or laptop.
effective result is generated in a place of deep concentration not roaming around aimlessly, going everywhere and doing everything, every little thing can distract me and cause me to loose track of what I'm working on especially if I'm writing, my flows can cut off and I'm lost, especially when I'm on my desk working....
I don't like clubs, parties etc, not like I rule them out totally tho, just they can never be found in my schedule even if I don't know what to do with my time, the loud noise, banging, shouting drama is not my thing in any way...
I'm very careful with my surrounding cause they can affect me a lot, I'm very careful with what I do per time, I'm very time concious and so I love to utilize my time 100% for me to achieve i have to engage my time well and that's only possible when the environment is suitable and stable for me to be able to.
A lot of people do not understand this, I won't blame them tho cause we are all wired differently and we have what drives us, as for me to be more of me I have to stay out of the crowd and the noise and that's when I can be me, that's when I can truly experience my peace of mind....
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