It's natural to change of perspective on life

Humans are different from each other because each of us has the power to think uniquely. Our thoughts make us different, but thoughts are not a constant thing. It can change with time. Various incidents of life or life experiences can change our thoughts as well as change our perspective on life.

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All of us are not the same as we were in our childhood time. It's because our perspective of life is not the same as when we were children. In childhood, we used to think about how to play, and now we think about how to make the time productive to make a better future. I think time and maturity changed our perspective on life. Sometimes significant events can change our perspective of life, and sometimes slowly maturity or, for no reason, perspective can change.

Since my childhood, I have been quite understanding in nature. When I feel I need a change in my thoughts, I can make it possible, and in my case, it's quite easier compared to others. Let me share some changes of thoughts in my life.

Doing study is the most important for a student, as the results of the exam matter a lot. We need to read the textbook for it. I used to think reading a textbook was enough and reading a non-textual book was a waste of time. The textbooks were boring, and it kind of forced me to read to do better in exams. Later, one of my favorite teachers suggested I read non-textual books also. He gave me a science fiction book to read. I am always curious when it's about science. And I really like the book my teacher gave me. Later he also gave me more books when I asked for them. With time I started to enjoy reading different types of books. There was not any direct benefit of reading a non-textual book, but it enriched my knowledge and made an overall impact on my personality over time. It's the thing that made my thoughts more organized and better.

Emotions are normal, and I have the habit of doing things against my emotions. I used to think it could ensure success, as most people make wrong steps when they are emotional and become failures in the end. Such a kind of mindset made me like a working machine and brought success many times, but some failures in life made me realize success has nothing to do with dominating emotions. I realized it the hard way after a failure, and I regretted ignoring my emotions, as after failure I felt I lost many important moments from my life, and it's lost forever. I think I am fortunate that I become a failure because that makes me realize it; otherwise, I might not understand it later also.

Many of us consider ourselves unlucky, and we try our best to prove unlucky in front of others. With time I realized that we focus on negative incidents of life most of the time, and we try to feel the pain again and again. It's like we love to get hurt. We are indeed ridiculous because we have tons of happy moments to remember, but we only focus on those few painful moments of life. I can't exactly remember what triggered me, but I started to focus on good incidents only, and after I started practicing it, I felt it changed my perspective fully. Now I can find positivity even in a bad incident. It's the most important change of my life, and that is enough for me to find happiness in any kind of situation.