Hello, everyone!
We all came from different backgrounds, and different bloodlines instigated by our ancestors. And the question came at the right time and the right season.
📝 Medical compatibility is one of the things many people fail to check while in a relationship, and when they discover that they are not compatible along the line, the lovers going separate ways becomes an issue. What advice would you give to lovers in this situation, and when do you think it is the right time for lovers to check their medical compatibility?
Many individuals insist on understanding their medical compatibility and they feel within themselves that all is well, particularly when they are in a relationship that is leading to marriage. They felt love could blind their eyes and they failed to check if they could go together and be compatible in the future.
Do you know I just checked my medical compatibility as one of the requirements for NYSC to be qualified for the camp? Before I used to guess my blood group and my genotype and fill in a form. So going to the clinic for a test, it was confirmed that what I have been guessing from the onset was true. My manipulation was correct and accepted. My heart was beating as the test results came out and i opened it and it was so.
I was so happy that I was free to go. Now that I am medically sound and compatible, I'm waiting for my future spouse to come and do his, so we can confirm our forever relationship.
The problem with our men and women is that of the beautiful figure of a man or woman, the car, the mansion, the money, and many things they could consider to have a good life, not considering the medical compatibility of it. Inside the marriage eyes open and they begin to blame the one person or bring punishment to their children whom they will suffer from one sickness to another.
Relationship is sweet, but you must put everything in place for a good life and for your children to become comfortable.
Let's do Genotype compatibility mathematics
AA + AA = can marry and it is expected all the children will be AA.
AA + SS = can marry but none of the children will the carriers of sickle cell.
AA + AS = can marry but some of the children will carry AA and AS.
AS + AS = can marry but there are chances that the children will carry a single cell that's SS syndrome.
AS + SS = cannot marry. I don't advise them to settle down here
SS + SS = cannot never marry. No matter how your love is strong, please do not marry from here.
Before you accept a man's proposal, all these medical fitness must be on standby.
Many married people are regretting today for making such mistakes and their children are bearing the consequences.
Then, know your blood as well. Know where and when your system needs medical support, especially with those who are O-negative or O-.
- A+
- A-
- B+
- B-
- AB+
- AB-
- O+
- O-
I know where I belong and you know, if you know where you belong. Know where the supposed spouse belongs to.
So my advice to couples, is they should know their genetic level before marriage or having children. They should seek counsel from genetic counselors who can offer them appropriate information and guidance on how to go about it.
This post is in response to Hive Naija's weekly prompts
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