Hello 
Sometimes, I feel like some women don’t really love themselves,they just want to win the "Mrs." title and these are some of the things that increases the rate of divorce in the society.
Look at men when choosing a wife.
They turn into detectives, pastors, and private investigators all at once.
They analyze beauty, character, morals, and even do a full FBI background check on your family. If they could, they’d probably interview your ancestors.
Even the most morally questionable man will suddenly develop high standards when it comes to picking a wife.
Now, what do some women do?
Oh, he has money? He can provide? Wedding bells, let’s go!"
No checklist, no background check,just vibes and financial security.
They’ll ignore red flags so big they could cover a stadium.
"He shouts a lot, but it’s just his personality." "He slapped me, but he was just angry." "He embarrassed me in public, but he apologized." Sis, love is not a rehabilitation center.
Some even say, "It’s better to cry in a Benz than in keke." My dear, why are we budgeting for tears in the first place? Happiness is not exclusive to poverty or wealth.
Meanwhile, men are out here selecting wives like they’re shopping for a luxury car. "This one is reliable, good mileage, no accidents, and an excellent interior." But some women?
They’ll marry a man with more red flags than a Formula 1 race and then start praying for divine intervention. Even God is looking at them like, "But I showed you the signs?"
Ladies, please, let’s start thinking when accepting to do life with a partner. Check for character, emotional stability, and basic human decency before signing up for a lifetime commitment. A man with money is not automatically a good husband or father.
Because if something happens to you, and he’s left alone to raise your kids—ask yourself, will your children thrive or will they need therapy for life?
Men choose their wives wisely. It’s time women do the same. Love is sweet, but wisdom is sweeter.