Growing up in Ogun State for over two decades now has taught me a lot of things about life. They are part of the things that have shaped me to become a better person. It is true that where you are; your environment has a way of influencing you and your decisions,which has a long lasting impact on your life. However, regardless of where you are, there is always something you can learn, which can influence you positively. Before I begin to share what I have learnt, it is important I state that I am from Delta State. I was born in Lagos, but started my childhood in Ogun State. Ever since then, I must say it has been a wonderful experience, as a result of the places I have been to and the people I have related with thus far 😊. Let me briefly talk about Ogun State
Ogun State is located in Nigeria (the southwestern part), which is one of the 36 States. It shares borders with Lagos State, Oyo State, Osun State, Ondo State, and Republic of Benin. Abeokuta, the State's capital, is a historic city, popular for its various landmarks, like Olumo Rock as an instance.
The State is predominantly inhabited by the Yoruba ethnic group, with rich cultural festivals, traditions, and historical sites.
With the number of people I have met and heard of in this state, it is safe to say that Ogun State has hardworking people. A part of the lyrics of the State's anthem says “Omo Ogun ise ya", which translates to mean “It's time to work". Ogun State people are known for hardwork and dedication. Most times when I head out of the house, I see both men and women in one business or the other, some getting involved in carpentry work, building houses, welding, and so on. Many may not qualify for office work, yet they don't fold their hands. They engage themselves with one “handwork" or the other, regardless if it's laborious or not. In as much as these things are done so they can feed, I still believe there's a part of them that love what they do. This has taught me hardwork and resilience.
Growing up in Ogun State has taught me about respect for elders. Yorubas are well known for physically expressing respect to their elderly ones, which includes one's elder brother or sister. It's their custom! you dare not call your elder brother or sister by name, you either add the prefix “brother" or “sister", to show you respect them. Sometimes I feel they do too much 😂, but I understand the idea behind all these. Where I come from, I call my elder brother by name, but I still accord him the respect he deserves. But growing up here, I had to blend with the culture 😊. Yourbas are so big on respect! They show respect to their elderly ones by prostrating to them when greeting or showing appreciation to them. All these and more has taught me respect. The idea behind all these is RESPECT. Everyone that knows me can attest to the fact that I am respectful, even to my mates and those younger than me. Respect is crucial and should be encouraged.
Growing up in Ogun State has made me love nature better, I mean the natural landscapes such as the river and hills. Abeokuta, the capital is known today for the famous “Olumo Rock". Unfortunately, I hardly go out to visit sites like these. But the fact that these landscapes exist in Ogun State has taught me to appreciate nature. They remind us of the beautiful work and craft of God. I had my university education in Abeokuta. That would have been a perfect opportunity to visit Olumo Rock. Notwithstanding, I believe I'll visit soon 🥰.
Lastly, Ogun State has taught me to be grateful to God for everything despite when life may not be rosy. The State is faced with many challenges, yet, people still smile and express joy. I get really amazed, which causes me to reflect. On individual level, I have learnt to be joyful and above all, grateful, even when things are not going smoothly. This has really helped me.
I'm grateful for the values I have imbibed. It has really been an awesome experience growing up in Ogun State.
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