This is an insightful and sobering look at the realities of toxic relationships. The idea that enduring abuse with the hope of change is fundamentally flawed is particularly powerful. As you pointed out, the cycle of abuse tends to persist, and marriage often exacerbates pre-existing behaviors. Your emphasis on the fact that abuse can take many forms beyond physical violence, such as verbal and emotional mistreatment, adds depth to the conversation. The takeaway is clear: prioritizing one’s mental and physical well-being over remaining in a harmful relationship is essential. Breaking free, even when it's difficult, is often the path to a healthier future. Thank you for bringing attention to such an important issue with clear, practical advice.