Smp-w14 is another special week with a special topic that affects us all because if you are not married today, it will be your turn tomorrow.
Marriage standard is what we need to set before getting onto marriage itself, but it funny just as it has been stated in the topic that most of us take time to plan how we want our wedding to be, what we want to wear and where we want to wedding to take place. We spend lots of money making all of effort to see that we have a good and societal wedding. But what do we get after the wedding? Surprises. That is what most people get after the wedding because they never set standard for their wedding. Standard I believe is the first before any other preparations.
WHAT IS MY STANDARD FOR MARRIAGE?
When I was younger I never had to set a very big standard for marriage because all that I was looking for is a man that will be my friend. A man who will love for me even when he knows that I have flaws. I don't need a man that is Africa in nature. You know what that means? A man who is so authoritative that he don't care how you feel or don't even realize when you are hurt. Some men are like that. We never got to do a big wedding plans because the money was not available as much by that time, but we know what we wanted. My husband to be then told me that he will treat me like a friend and that is what we have today.
We have stayed together for twenty five years now, and we have tolerated each other because we are friends. Offence comes once in a while, but that friendship that existed between us helps us pull through. All I need is a friend who will be there for me and I will also be there for him. This we have given to ourselves since we came together.
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