Compliment of the season once again to everyone here. I love you guys and wish you all a prosperous new year.
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Marriage is a very beautiful thing from my own opinion and I believe that it should be done at the right time. From the topic for this season you will understand that we are in the season where most people are getting married because it is a holiday time and people want to use the opportunity to get married before they can get back to work second week of January. This is a good thing and I do not see why we should allow people to pressure us into depression because ours is not happening now. We should be happy for those getting married and don't let their celebration become a reason why we should be sad.
For some the pressure is coming from inside, while others have their pressure coming from outside. Whatever the situation maybe no one should be pressured into something that we will regret later in life. Marriage is for better for worse. Till date do us part. I believe we don't want to live with regrets all the days of our lives, or live with someone who we don't love all because we are pressured to do so.
Of course this is the time when most of our aunties and uncles make us feel very bad for not getting married. We move at our own pace. Don't let anyone force you to run when we don't have the strength for running. Walk if you have to, walk faster if you can, but don't do what you don't want because of what people will say.
I have seen people who rush in and out of marriage because the were pressured to do so. Any fruit that you plug down before it's time will never be sweet like the others. But if we allow the fruit to ripe before pluging it our we will enjoy it. I have been married for over 25 years and I can tell you for free that you don't rush into marriage because you will also rush out.
This is my response to scifi multiverse week 48: edition 2