Don't be surprise when people change because of their situation, sometimes it's there fault and sometimes it's not there fault, such is life. There are lots of experiences i've seen and i've experienced in the past. Yes, it's always pain when we experienced things like this, especially if it's someone we don't expect do this for us.
Imaging yourself being with someone very close to you like a blood, and at the end of the day, shit still later happen. Me saying this doesn't just saying it, there are many experiences on that. An experience that makes me to be asking myself if this truly happened.
Part of the experience is having people i was once inseperable from go silent the moment they leveled up. New title, new circle, new energy and suddenly text started feeling one sided calls stopped and the vibe? Off. My friend that do call, do video call, chat with me everyday now turn to the one that hardly pick my calls nor call me. I remember reaching out once , just to check in, not to beg for attention. She said something like " I've just been really busy, you know how it is " But i knew it wasn't just about not having time, It was about showing the real her for me to see, it was about having nonchalant attitude, it was about alignment.
Proximity to power makes some people forget the ground they came from. Make them forget that, there was a time some people were there for them, there was a time people care so much about them, but they forget this and just move on with life without filling guilty, without thinking that , people will also need them, just like the way they need people when they are coming up. Sincerely i wasn't really asking for the closeness, but just that honest that no matter how things might change, no matter how levels might have changed, that you will still be there for some people.
And sincerely, all this things that happened also made me check myself, because there was a time i shifted too. That was when i started gaining a bit more stability, more recognition, i also got quit, not out of pride but pressure. From realizing that not everyone clapped for me the same. So some friendships felt out of sync, and instead of explaining, i just decided to pulled away on my own
So to end my discussion, i'll say maybe sometimes we change to protect ourselves. And sometimes people change because they forget where they started. So either way i've learnt that growth shouldn't require ghosting. And a real one won't feel threatened by your shine, they will reflect it back.
Have you ever been on either side of this atall?
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