The saying that you will never understand until you are in such shoe is real correct, when I was much younger, I do look at my big sis and aunties that are supposed to be married according to their age as of they aren't serious with marriage, I watch them go from man to another and I will say their taste is too high , I once confronted my sister and she told me I will understand when I get to that level. I now understand because I'm now in that shoe,when I was much younger ,I thought Marriage is all about love ,once we love each other, then we can go into marriage, I didn't know then that a lot has to be considered before venturing into marriage.
Whenever people talk about me not yet married, I don't get mad at them, they say a lot of things, people we always talk based on the perspective, everyone has their perspective. Marriage fever, apart from social media that wants to frustrate single people life, proposal here and there, let's talk about my job as a caterer and decorator, I will finish gall decoration like this and it will feel like I should be the bride, the sweet ceremony show of love and everything do enter my head sometimes especially if it's a wedding that's just like my dream wedding but after the event ,I do tell myself, my time will come, I will shine and people will come to celebrate me when my time comes.
I love marriage, I love "Love" but then I will never choose a partner in a rush, it's a lifetime thing because all I have picture in my head is a beautiful family full of love and happiness. So, I will surely take my time, marry once and marry right.
