Friendship that matters they say is a friend in need is a friend indeed. People who will surround ourselves with has a greater influence on us and 80% of things we do are actually going to be affected by the kind of friendship we keep. For example you have someone who is brilliant but decide to have friends who are not brilliant by say not because exceptional but for the context of this article, you will believe with me that if he do not put more effort he will begin to drop in his output or intelligence. That same thing happens to someone who don't used to smoke but decide to mingle with friends who smokes one day he will be tempted to give it a try and that is just it continues that way for example I have this friend of mine with his story about when he was growing up and his these days in high institution, he never wanted to study law not until his best friends decide to study law and boom he had interest in it and pursue for it, and now he's a graduate in law and he's doing well. So this will crown it that friends who will surround ourselves with has greater impact or influence on us..
Our circle of Friends is one thing we should be careful about. The energy and the vibe they give you will actually tell you at first if this friends are what keeping or not? When you have people who don't encourage what you do or advise you positively on what to do, especially in time of difficulties, if friends around you cannot help you to give you ideas on how to go out or come out of the problem then I don't think the worth that friendship, see honestly they may not be able to give you 100% of the solution but then contributes to the solution.
Kind of Friends you will keep you will start losing personal interest in things you loves to do which keeps you going. Honestly this is an example of a red flag in friendship every friend you keep must possess the same interest with you it may not be that you are studying medicine and the person is studying medicine but then you people have to support each other's goals and dream. So we should be able to know what kind of friendship we want and the people who are making it up, there are people who don't worth your Friendship, so you go where you are needed, valued, respected and not where you are just wanted because of what you just possessed, however one thing you should know is there is no friendship without giving and taking, i.e you must possess some potential in you so has to balance the friendship, friendship should not be one-sided.
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