Marriage is a Union that bond two persons, male and female together and in a successful marriage, it is a lifetime journey that requires someone to be careful of their decision and choices. However marriage requires a lot of standard for an individual to set whle being ready to settle down. Most of the time decision which women before marriage is what affects us in marriage or what will go after is what really affects us in future time when it gets to marriage. Just like I said marriage is a lifetime process, is a lifetime journey that you cannot even know where you're heading to but you actually heading to somewhere. I have this friend of mine that will always tell me what is his mind about marriage, the immediately I saw this prompt topic, I called you man I was like guy how far come and talk about this, he smile I say I should go my way Biko. A lot of persons look at for beauty presents before marriage, some look at shape, so I'm also look at skin color and other physical appearance. In as much as these are concerned in an important which should also look out for other things that make up an individual which is behavior, character and attitude.
Not really ready for marriage but then I believe I know what I want and for me to get that which I want I had to set standard to differentiate the known from the unknown or better still differentiate the need from the wants. This is a great point or standard which everyone should Set, as you are not an anyhow person same as marriage, it is not an anyhow process or a journey which can just embark on without being prepared already for what is coming. Some of the marriage which will admire from a far has a lot of flops but the way they handle their issues and situations are what makes them different and exceptional to the society, presenting to be perfect but deep than have obstacles. Just like everyone will say about how pretty they are partner will look, how obedient and respectful, how submissive and all that everyone should look at for or I need in marriage. however we should know sugar coat the challenges that come with marriage, indeed marriage is not a simple process therefore what works for you might not really work for me.
This standard which we are sitting it is very important to set them and maintain them however we should also know that a marriage sometimes which will set at the process of getting a perfect person my change might change if time is not taking. I might not be saying my standards which I have for marriage but then being that individual which is best for my partner and my partner being the best for me is what the standard is all about. Whichever standard which we said that is not favorable to that person which we are going to call a partner is not a good standard. In marriage it is not just you alone it is a two process. The standard which you said helps you and guide You to choose a partner of your standard but then also remember that when you get that which you need also look at for that with your partner need. It is important to set standard before marriage and stick to them, the enable You to stay focus on a particular Goal.
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