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Over the years, I have seen and heard of people suffering and passing on simply because the sickness that struck them had no cure. Some grew up with it and could not help themselves, and after all the struggles, it is always painful to watch them leave this world just like that.
Some years ago, I had a very good friend who passed away as a result of sickle cell. She was such a kind-hearted and hardworking young lady, so industrious and determined to survive. But once in a while, the attacks would come, and sometimes she would slip into a coma or remain unconscious for hours. I can remember how much she spent on drugs just to stay alive. She fought hard until she completed her higher education, went job hunting, and eventually got something to do. Even while managing sickle cell, she remained strong and focused. Intellectually, she was very sound. I remember my first published book, she contributed so much intellectually to it, she was just so nice.
I was happy when she told me about her marriage. She got married, conceived, and sadly, I heard she passed on during childbirth as a result of sickle cell anemia. When the news reached me, I was weak. I felt the pain deep in my heart like a sharp cut on the skin. I remembered her struggles, her determination, her efforts to live, and yet she could not. My heart bled when I heard of her demise. Keep resting, my dear friend. May the good Lord keep your soul.
I also know another friend who I suspect is going through the same struggle. Some months ago, she was sick and mentioned being in the hospital. When I called her last month, she said to me, "Nsi, it has been a while, you do not want to come and see me until you see my obituary." Those words pierced my heart, and I almost broke down in tears. I told her nothing would happen to her.
Deep inside me, I just wish I could help. I feel like if I had the super power, I would create a cure for this ailment because I am afraid of losing another friend to it. I pray that God keeps and sustains her.
This is why I keep saying, if I ever had the power to create a cure for one sickness, it would be sickle cell anemia. I lost a good friend to it, and I do not want to lose another. I cannot even stand the sight of others going through such a crisis. May God help and strengthen all those who are facing this. Amen.
