There comes a time when we are very angry, and at that time we have to take a decision, and then that decision can be very wrong. Because when you are angry, your brain stops working and only anger enters your mind. At that time, if you make any decision, it becomes very irrational and very bad because it does not make any logic, and in anger a person starts doing things that he regrets later. So, I believe that whenever you are angry, you should calm yourself down. First, sit in a peaceful place where you feel like doing something, and do that which gives you happiness.
I have seen many such examples, and I personally had many friends whose careers and relationship opportunities were ruined because the decisions they took were taken in anger or out of ego. So I believe that if there is an argument between you and someone, then do not take any such decision at that time that may cause you more problems because if you take it seriously, then you will have to give him details, but when your anger cools down and when your anger calms down, then you will realize how wrong that decision was. You will feel so bad about it. After that, this is the problem. In today's time we take decisions, but when our anger calms down, then we regret a lot of why we did that.
If we keep decision-making aside, then many times it happens that if we are angry and the other person does something, then we say harsh words to him and take such tips, due to which we may have a lot of problems later. Like if we are in a fight and we raise our hand on him or start fighting with him, then it is a big problem. Your emotions on him will make him very weak, and your brain will get very wrong signals. Anger always creates problems for a person. No one ever benefits or anything else. If you are abusing someone in anger or you are doing that, then later you will come to know that that thing was not needed. If you did it in anger, then I believe that one should never do anything in anger. If you are feeling angry, then you should sit somewhere peacefully and do nothing. You should just do that thing that you enjoy and that will calm you down.
For example, I used to work as an intern in a company, and the boss of that company was a mean and angry type of person, so one day he left me without any reason, but he used to get angry for work as much as he wanted. But I took it upon myself and left that job at that time. I left that, but later I regretted it a lot because if a person is making you angry and he got angry at the right thing, then you should never take that thing with ego, so that decision was a very bad distance in life because I left that job in anger, and my internship was for 6 months, and I did this for 5 months, and in the process of 1 month, I did not get that important and valuable certificate, so you can understand.
There is only one solution to this. Whenever you get angry, you should not do anything. You should sit in a peaceful place. You should do all those things that keep your mind calm and always do this that never interferes in your decisions in life. Whenever you get angry with anything, then that anger always prevails over you, and in anger, a person takes many such decisions that have been very bad for him in life and have made him very responsible. I have seen many such people who were in the sky. Meaning, they used to do such good work, and in anger, people left it. Today, don't ask about the people who are in such helplessness and trouble; many come into such a life that their life becomes completely useless.
Additionally, I want to say that whatever hanger you have, it directly affects you. In your personal growth or success, you can understand from my story how close I was to a certificate, which is very important and valuable for my life. But in my anger and jealousy, I left that valuable certificate, and today I regret it so much because I had to do an internship for 6 months in some other company again. To get that thing, my time was wasted and my energy was also wasted, so it affected me physically and mentally, because then I started getting tense because we have a time limit. That certificate has to be done within that time only. If that internship certificate is not there, then that field match is shown. Then if we do not get a job, then you can imagine how much of a problem it would be later.
Lastly, I would like to say that if you ever feel that you have said something to someone in anger, then the only solution for it is that later when you calm down, you go and say sorry to him. Saying sorry does not make any person big or small. If that person listens to even a few words while saying sorry, then you should listen to him because it is your mistake. You have said something wrong to the person in anger. If you say sorry and get him to agree to it, then you will also feel happy that yes, I have corrected the mistake I made. So all these are important things that you should always learn in life. Many people believe that saying sorry means bowing down. Then I believe that saying sorry is a very big thing. You have accepted your mistake.