How early experiences shapes us

The first stage of a child in the socialization process is the family,the family consists of parenthood.Where both or one of the parent either the mother or father brings up the child.At this stage the child starts learning how to do various things and one of the things are mimicking.

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At this mimicking process the child imitate whatever he or she see that can affect the child either positively or negatively because when the child starts learning how to talk he sees things. One thing lead to other people in the house might start throwing abusive words in that process the child starts imitating the person calling that same abusive word randomly because he or she doesn't understand the meaning of it and is still learning how to talk. l will be sharing two of my childhood experiences

During one of my childhood experiences when l was just 5 years old,my elder sister Hive account@bipolar95 ,back then she always take me wherever she's going out even if she's going to buy something from a nearby store. Back then whenever we are walking l always see guys calling her all sort of sweet romantic names just to get her attention but she dont even answer them. This went on for a very long period of time until when l came of age guys started calling me all sorts of sweet names on the road. But then l remembered when me and my sister normally walks she doesn't answer them.That was how l started with the habit of not answering guys when they are calling me on the road.

So what a guardian do in the presence of a child really matters a lot and it can affect the child psychologically either in a good or bad way.

Another incident of my childhood experience,while growing up l haven't seen anybody coming to look for my mom at the house not even any of her friends or colleagues at work just her relatives, back then she was always on her own me being little then l do watch her behavior and l grew up with the habit of finding it difficult to make friends and this habit affected me negatively all the time so during my growing up as an adult l developed the feeling of always being alone on my own whenever my mates socializes with each other l will just be on my own. I don't even like people coming to visit me that sometimes l usually go through depression and people nicknamed me a "Sadist" until when l gained admission in school the course of which l"m studying is Mass communication a course that deals with socializing with the Public.

You can't be an introvert and study mass communication it can't work.So this course made me to start socializing and interacting with my Coursemates and both my neighbors at my hostel,during this process l stopped feeling depressed and being alone whenever l'm bored l always go out to see my friends we talk and laugh and that made me really happy.

So in conclusion behaviorism of the adulthood usually have an effect on the younger ones both physically and psychologically.

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