Success reveals true connections just like tough times do, success doesn't change real friends, it exposes the fake ones. The ones who can't handle growth were never in it for the friendship they were in it for what you used to be, when people can't handle success they downplay things most especially their friendship before they made it.
Good friends teach you about yourself and challenge you to be better. They encourage you to keep going when times gets tough and celebrate your successes with you. I really do admire some people when they tell me the are still together and in good terms with their childhood friend or friends and even if they made it big and some have not they still talk and laugh.
I've had multiple friends in the past, as things goes by l started loosing everyone l really don't know why but it kept happening. We'll be talking very fine and all of a sudden their attitude will change and when l tried reaching out to know what's happening they'll act busy giving me excuses everytime and by doing l would lost interest in the friendship and that is how we all became status viewers it really hurts though but anyways nothing last forever. I would like to share my experience about how my friend changed when she got admission into the University.
I had this friend from high school her name is Jenifer, we became so close when she discovered we both stayed in the same street and we were even classmates, people even thought we were siblings with the way we behave towards each other and we even look alike. We bonded until after school l wanted to apply for admission into the University but l was so young when l left high school l wasn't up to the age to apply so l stepped back and decided to get an handwork till when the time is right. Meanwhile Jenifer was up to the age to apply she did apply for the admission and left, l thought she would still talk to me when she's gone our friendship would last but immediately she left her attitude changed she stopped calling me, stopped replying my texts, she started acting like we're not on the same level anymore, it went on for so long l couldn't bear it any longer so l called her one morning to know what's going on and she told me to my face that we are not in the same class anymore l should act like it. I felt really sad and cried that was how our friendship since high school went in the mud because she gained admission even when l also gained admission later on she wanted to start talking to me l snubbed her because she wasn't a true friend.
One advice l would really love to give to people facing same issues is to stay positive, if you dwell on the things that goes wrong, you become bitter and have regrets. When that happens, you fail no matter what you many have achieved.
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