It's hurt when someone you call a friend's suddenly walk away just because you are facing a difficult time. It makes you try to figure out if you guys had an issue, the most painful part is when everything is moving normal and suddenly they choose to disappear. They leave you with lots of questions, asking yourself if you are at fault or if you mistakenly offended them, it may even make you blame yourself for them walking away. But the truth is that they are just showing their real face, they are showing you that they were not there from the beginning.
The reality of people leaving
People mostly comes in contact with others because of what they stand to gain, in which in turn keeps them. This kinds of people are just for their personal interest making them not to care about you as far as there are getting what they need from you. When they get what they came for they disappear.
Or sometimes when you grow in especially being greater than they ever imagined they feel unconformable or you giving them a pure heart, that makes them uncomfortable and decides to leave because they can't match or off your shine . When you are too good and they start being jealous they will pretend to be your friend, this their pretended friendship will only work as they are benefiting from you, but there's how you can be too good to the and it will prompt them to leave you because you can not do same to you.
When someone leaves you, don't take it as rejection, when I was a kid, when someone especially very close friends I don't cry about it, I only move on, trying to make you regret why you left me. People leaves you as a revelation for you to know who they truly are. It makes you know that they have a completed their role in your life its time they move on. As I said if you keep your intentions pure, no pretender will be able to stay with you.
Friends were meant to stay with you everytime, so if you encounter the one that choose to leave you, let the person go, make sure you build yourself to the extent that he or she will regret why they left you.
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