We all know that these days marriage is over rated and the truth be told we can't say if it's because the values are no more appreciated or there just aren't valued any more.
This topic well someone in the administrative team must want to read people's mind about this. Let's dig in.
I'm a lover of happy ever after with the number of cartoons/ movies I have enjoyed I definitely want my marriage to be one full of love adoration and admonition.My marriage standard my best friend, a husband, a brother, a friend
My Marriage Standard 1
My best friend
Marrying my best friend that understands me well, knows why my eyes are rolling, why my stomach hurts, why I can't talk but yet understands my body language. And gets me so well even over the phone. I have said here that my parents are well over 50 years in marriage and they are still interested in each others daily activities. Let my mom go out for 2 hours and she will be called up by my father like 3 different times just to be in the know of her whereabouts and when he should expect her back home. Oh same thing goes for her as well. My best friend and I never get tired of gist there's always something to talk about with passion for that matter 🤣 😜 🤣 😜 🤣 😜
Picture credit taken by me
Anniversary pictures of the Balogun's
Marriage isn't easy yes there are days they get on each others bad side but that only last for a few minutes.
My marriage standard 2
A Husband one that can provide and protect me from anyone and anything not just the outside forces even his family one that will be my knight in shining armour keeping safe will be his priorities. And loves me unconditionally not looking at my flaws and mistakes not counting my inabilities. My lover never getting tired of me.
Picture credit taken by me
Anniversary picture of the Balogun's
My marriage standard 3
A Brother
There's this special bond sister's have with their brothers you can't explain it at all because it's strong and it's love can break anything at all. A Brother looks out for his sister not wanting her to get into any trouble and covers her from their parents wrath. I remember growing up some years back and there was a fight some where we got home and our father wanted to punish us for going to the fight area my brother's stood up for me and told our father that it was just them the boys that I didn't go with them. A Brother defence is fierce and doesn't go down easily I want that from my husband.
My Marriage Standard 4
A Father
There are father's that command respect and authority only by the looks in their eyes order is placed. They don't lift a finger or say a word and you see people running to see that everything is as they ought to be. There's also this feeling you get from your father as a girl child that gives you that assurance that nothing can go wrong with your father being here. The authority the presence and the ambience of a Father every husband should have it.
Now I know you will read my post and may conclude that I can't get all this in one man in reality but only in my dream world let me shock you. Your man is who you make him to be. And am so excited that all that I want I can get in my Man..my dream Man my marriage standard.
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