I hated birthdays so much, that my sister once told me I'm an ungrateful person, and in my defense I would always ask; why celebrate the fact that you are getting old, and it even get worse when you didn't achieve the plans you had for the previous year. She will go further to remind me of so many people that wishes to be in my position, those in the hospital and other bad situations of life , but they are still happy and have hope of a better day , at the end I just end up being calm and quiet.
At some point you question God, , your values, yourself, your morals, , your abilities, and even yourself and everything around you , the hard truth is that the best place to start up and build up strength is from everything that got you crying, you get strength from your failure, your weakness, your disappointment.
You get strength from facing those disappointments and fears . You get strength from facing them and not running away from those problems, because you can't run forever.
Don't allow that failure win you, you have to face , you have to cry out those pain, misfortune and disappointments
I understand that life hits so hard most times, and you begin to question everything . But I have realized that, adulthood and growth will make your stronger and bold in times of challenges, it's a process.
Have you realized that those phases that makes you scared in life, you pass them with ease. You keep questioning yourself and asking how did I do this.
Don't let fear make you feel you can't break limits.
I also realized that giving up is never an option, it's never too late to fulfill those dreams, it's never too late to bring your wildest imagination to reality, life has a beautiful package for everyone, giving up might deny you a chance of seeing that package that life has for you.
Nobody will motivate you, more than you do to yourself, strength comes from within , it comes from you and you have what it takes, you can get strength from inspirational quotes and speakers, you still remain the best motivational speaker to yourself. You should speak positivity at all time.
You need to push, believe and motivate yourself. You have the absolute power to motivate yourself, more than any other person. You have to stay stong and resilient, there's absolute power in those failures, disappointments, pains and struggles of life.
POSITIVITY.
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