Movers, Shakers & Hustlers

“When you are backed against the wall, break the goddamn thing down.” – Harvey Specter

I was arrested at the age of 16 - accused of dealing heroine and whilst this was not true, I was no angel lol, but my friendly association with said individual who WAS in fact guilty of the accusation had me take the fall for it. I was so oblivious and naive that I had not even noticed the cops approaching us... but he did and whilst I was still talking to him - he had already vanished. The arrest went through anyway because they had found weed on me and a knife with a blade longer than the legally permitted length.

This was probably one of the more mortifying moments of my life - being hauled into the back of a police van, having to look at my fathers face as I walked down the court corridors and then having to serve six months of juvenile correctional service. Those are moments in life which you simply don't forget... and admittedly, despite the severity of the situation, it did not stop me from getting into trouble as I got older... but it did do one thing for me and that was... (this may seem odd) - but I stopped reading fictional books and started reading non-fiction motivational stuff.

Every single day on the train to and from college I would read and I became completely consumed and obsessed with the lessons and insights offered. A spark was ignited the other day when I read a really inspiring blog post that I stumbled upon. I absolutely LOVE passionately motivated people!

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There are MANY people like that around here - some are harder and others gentler in their approach and style. I appreciate and value them all, but if I am honest, the individuals which ignite that same fire within me are the one's who are far more direct and brutal in their approach... They cut through the crap, get to the point (quickly) - deliver a VERY clear message and essentially kick you off your butt.

The best part about people like this is that their energy is utterly contagious - pretty much like the motivational substance you take from books by like-minded authors.

These are the people that rock the boat! They are not afraid to push boundaries, test situations and move toward a goal, despite being tackled along the way. My focus on people and content like this from the above mentioned point in my life is precisely what helped me to build exactly the same style of approach to life and it's positive effects are undeniable.

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"Birds of a feather..." or "your mind will believe anything you tell it often enough..." come to mind. Surrounding yourself and consuming your mind with positivity, drive, passion and guts will steer you in a good direction no matter where you stand when you start!

And in a world fill with so much insecurity, doubt and self-loathing, it is beyond my comprehension why more people don't switch things up a little in their owns lives... you know, if a recipe doesn't work and is not resulting in you being happy... adjust the recipe! You know you are a true foodie when even your motivational references are food related... haha!

I may not have steered myself and my life in the right direction the first, second or even third time, but there is one thing I know for sure - it was my choice of content selected to fill my mind with that ultimately DID lead me away from what would almost definitely have ended badly and it is for this reason that I will never underestimate the power of what you feed your mind as well as WHO you choose to allow into that space too.

Over the years, I too, have learnt to speak from a place of passion as well as draw a very clear and definitive line as to "what and who" I do, or do not want in my sphere. I suppose that one advantage derived from blurring so many lines when I was younger is that it eventually lead me down roads which offered sights and experiences that gave very BRUTAL perspective - and perspective is probably our most impactful teacher.

So, for me - the "what and who" of what goes into my pot nowadays is a very select blend. lol! I want, not only to BE someone who breaks ground giving it new life, breeding inspiration and passion in those around me but I also want to surround myself with those that share a similar vision. Life is too short to feel anything but GOOD.

I have long since been an AVID fan of the series SUITS - and no, not just because of the eye-candy that is Harvey Specter haha! - but rather because it literally feeds and breeds a mindset that NEVER gives up, that ALWAYS looks for a solution, stands for NO crap, says it LIKE IT IS and GETS THINGS DONE! - NO MATTER WHAT! Today I watched the last episode of the series and I am officially BLEAK! I think I need to go read some uplifting quotes... hehehe!!

... You catch my drift - hopefully!

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If not, let me just say it: Seek out the people and things which make you want to conquer the world - that make you believe in yourself and not the opposite - that help you retain the faith that is required in order to see a challenge through to it's end. Become cognizant of what you are feeding your mind with on a daily basis... be it the feeds you follow on social media, the people you engage with or your own self-talk.

These "seemingly small" details are the make or break of our lives.