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Just because a lady profess love to you or open up her legs for you doesn’t mean she is in love with you
When a guy spends lavishly and treats you like a queen, that doesn’t mean he is willing to be committed to you
It is important to understand the INTENT of his/her ACTIONS.
There was a time, there has been a trending word “entanglement” on the news about a celebrity marriage.
If you don’t know about the news, grab a bowl of popcorn and follow me while I summarize.
Will smith and Jada Pickett have been married for 23 years now.
About 4 years ago that both decided to be separated so as to know if they really want to continue with the marriage. It was a mutual consent.
Just a while before their separation, the couple decided to help a young singer going through some challenges. They accommodated August Alsina in their home for a while.
According to an interview, Jada said she feels compassion for people going through hard time and this grew her affection towards August...... They later became friends.
And since her marriage with Wills wasn’t working, she grew emotionally attached with August.
After she and wills separated, she became very close with August and they later started a romantic relationship.
According to her they both had an entanglement relationship.
An entanglement relationship means a complicated or compromising relationship. It wasn’t built out of love.
When the news of her extramarital affair came into limelight. She said,
“I & August, we were going through some challenges in our lives and we found comfort in each other”
It’s unwise to start a relationship with someone who is not emotionally stable or just experienced an heartbreak.
YOU WILL BE MERELY USED TO OVERCOME HER HEARTACHE AND LONELINESS.
Don’t get distracted when he/she call you everyday or wake you up every morning with a text message.
That doesn’t necessarily mean he/she wants you, he/she might just be using you to feel the void in their heart from their past hurtful relationship.
You don’t need a new relationship to heal......
You need to heal before you start a new relationship.
Don’t let anyone use you for distract themselves from their hurtful emotions......
Walk away whenever you discover you’re just been used to pass time.
Remember, It is important to understand the INTENT of his/her ACTIONS.
Be wise!!
Stay inspired!!