Think Debate, discuss, negotiate. as opposed to argue. All of the others come before an argument. You chose to argue, an argument is one step away from fighting. debate discussions are not.

Think about the things you say to make yourself seem righteous. Your post is only for those who already believe. You discard more than you think. As for understand another better. You dismissed me. Your actions do not reflect your words typed nor the words of any bible I have heard of.

get your house in order before you preach.