Marriage - Would you get a divorce? What would be your reasons for getting a divorce? Would you get married again? Why? How many times would you get married?
Hello #qc_community, Compliments of the season. Trust you are doing fine. I welcome you to my blog. I am happy to participate in this week's prompt and look forward to your feedback in the comment section.
Eugenia Pan'kiv
Marriage is a union of two people. It is borne out of the desire the stay together for life, mutually cohabit, in good, bad, and ugly times. It is built on mutual trust, understanding, and genuine care for one another. In some traditions, specific ordinances must be followed for a marriage to be established, depending on the culture that is paramount within the locality or the cultures observed by the couple.
Marriage is beneficial when the parties are clear on what they want and how they want it. Some go into marriage believing that they will change the other person’s bad attitude afterwards. But it has failed several. Parties should understand the attitude of their partners and settle within themselves that it is what they can condone before saying I do.
However, so many people lead a double-faced life, making it difficult for others to detect their bad side until they settle down in marriage. They will start releasing the other side of their character.
For me, marriage excels where love, mutual trust, and understanding prevail, but fails where lies, betrayal, communication gaps, misunderstanding, laziness, and adultery are the order of the day. It is not as if those vices cannot be overlooked, but if they constantly happen with reckless abandon and an unremorseful heart, then the marriage is bound to collapse.
Eric Ward
Divorce is not an option for me, but the last resort if there are traces of unrepentant waywardness that cannot be stopped or dealt with. Like when somebodys life is threatened through frequent emotional torments. Rather than becoming suicidal, divorce might be the way out. This is because a person needs to be mentally sane and peaceful to function in a marriage.
In case divorce happens, why not, one can decide to get married again and again, when true love is found. Marital failure does not signify an end to marriage as an institution, so one would not fail and remain a failure. It is that particular marriage that failed, so the person can move on when true love when found. Though for me, I would wish I had passed through marriage once with my husband to behold life at its fullest, grow old with one another happily forever.
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