My number one rule for getting into a relationship with anyone is mutual trust and respect.
Would you be in a relationship with someone who thinks they own you? Why?
I love love and everything that makes up a good relationship. I like my partner to love me unconditionally, and I do the same but one thing I am not going to tolerate is you acting like you own me.
Are you God? Can you create me all over again? Am I an object that you own? Then, no you can't own me.
I don't know how people get to a point where they think they can lord over people. You can be respected, adored, and admired by people but do not equate this to being super powerful to ever think you own people.
People need to understand the purpose of getting into a relationship. Do not get into a relationship for the fun of it or because everyone is doing it, but get into a relationship with intentionality, understanding, and clarity. Relationships are not meant to benefit only one party neither are they in any way meant to diminish another status.
The love and respect in a relationship must be mutual.
A relationship is meant for two people, two people who are ready to learn and grow together not a master and slave dynamic.
Relationships are meant to be sweet, interesting, and wonderful, not to be a scary ride where one is overly possessive and controlling while the other is scared and silenced. When the latter is the case, the purpose of a relationship is destroyed and you may as well be bound with chains so you know you are a slave who is owned by your dear master, and while at that, your name can be inscribed on your face so we know for sure that you are a slave and not one in love.
The thought of being owned by another human being is wrong and heartbreaking.
We all have our lives to live, we have our dreams and aspirations, owning me means having full control of me and being able to tamper with my freedom, it is limiting and that sucks!
I am my own person, one who existed before the thought or existence of the relationship so therefore I am nobody’s property and would like people to respect that.
What about you reading this post, Would you be in a relationship with someone who thinks they own you? Why? I’d love to read your thoughts in the comment sections.
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