It's amazing how we call something's goals to be achieved but fail to get to that point.
We see them as goals simply because other people also see them as goals but in the long run it turns out to be a thorn in the neck simply because one may run out of patience in the journey of trying to achieve these goals.
And while trying to figure out the best way to navigate your way through to achieving these set goals it becomes frustrating and at the end one may turn out achieving it the wrong way which may not last for a long time.
Goals are a success destination, they are the peak you get to that becomes part of your success story of course we achieve them in stages setting greater ones and making sure you get there.
Goals should be achieved on the basis of passion and love when love is attached to achieving your goal, you don't get exhausted no matter how difficult it may be trying to get there, you pass through thick, thin, smooth and rough without even observing them.
Not focusing on any other thing but paying more attention to what you want for yourself not minding if anyone is looking at you or not as that might serve as distractions.
In as much as we love the achievement of some people around us who happened to be great but then I still implore that goals achievement should be a personal thing.
It's so good you draw strength from people who have been through the part on which you are treading on.
Seek advice from people who are already there but your basis for achieving your goal should not be on the grounds that it's because they achieved it so you also must do the same. If you take on that path simply because other people did then be sure to face frustration and the possibility of not finishing is high as passion differs.
Set achievable goals and with great love and passion try as much as possible to reach that goal.