Don't hurt anyone unnecessarily. Remember one thing. You can never make your dreams come true by hurting someone else. It's good to dream, but don't ever think that while dreaming, you will break someone else's dream and fulfill your own. The most important part of a person's life is his mind. If someone breaks that mind, that person can't really be good. As far as I've seen, by the end of life, we humans are completely broken. No matter what, whether someone can or can't, the fight goes on to make life right. Some people refrain from fighting because they feel like they're completely broken. What will happen will be seen later. What you can do will also be seen later. But keep one thing in mind. You can never be good by hurting someone else's mind. You can never be good by breaking someone else's dream by hurting someone else's mind.
You feel like you can do a lot of things. You feel like your life is so much better. You feel like you are better than anyone else in this world. To tell the truth, do you know that there are many people in a better position than you, but they don't want to reveal them. There are many people in this world who are better than you, but they don't want to present those words to everyone. We are trapped in the web of relationships. It is not possible for me to get out of it. Not only for me, not for many people. In some relationships, we cling to ourselves in such a way. It seems like all the happiness of life is here. All the peace is here. Life is meant to be a basic mantra for being happy, but this mantra does not work for everyone. You feel like you can do something, but you cannot do anything until you enable yourself.
This is how we say, I stumbled once while doing a task, I won't do it again, I stumbled twice, I won't give you the house, I stumbled three times, I won't do this task from now on, I think I've caught your eye in this task, in many cases, you will see that when someone starts a task or when they continue with the interest they have in their task, they gradually increase the speed of their work, and there are some people like us, when we do any task, the speed we initially have in our work gradually decreases. We have to keep trying to maintain the speed of our work, we think in our minds that today is the best time, it helps, but when we forget that we have to do something, if not now, then tomorrow, or maybe the day after tomorrow, we have to bring these thoughts out of ourselves, then we forget the interest that is in us.
Life has become unbearable in these few days of heat. It is getting so hot that no one can be told or explained to anyone. Everyone I meet says that it is very difficult to survive in the heat. What else can I do? The month of Kartik has come and October is at its very last stage. I thought maybe I will be able to enjoy the cold to some extent. Even if we feel it a little in the morning, the temperature of the sun forces us to forget it, there is nothing we can do. We have to accept everything because we humans have no control over nature, and the way we are torturing nature. It is natural that nature will take revenge on me, you, or the people of the whole world.
Even then, we thank God. Alhamdulillah, we are fine the way He has kept us. But many people hesitate to express this gratitude. In fact, we should express gratitude the way Allah has kept us. People are living in much more difficult conditions than we are. After working all day, my body is completely exhausted. I feel sleepy in the afternoon, but I have no intention of sleeping, because I have to go to the doctor with my little son. He has been vomiting a lot since morning, which I feel is very bad. He is working. He cannot even drink a little water, and even when he drinks water, he vomits it. This seems terrible to me. So, without delay, I also went to the market in the afternoon with my son to the doctor.
After going to the doctor, I explained the matter to him, then he told me that it is happening because of the heat, be patient, God willing, everything will be fine. I asked if there was any medicine for this, then he gave me a medicine to prevent vomiting. Then I went to the store to buy some things for my family. I bought the things I needed from there. Then I asked my son what he really wanted to eat. He didn't want to eat anything, and on top of that, he vomited, which I really feel bad about, nothing could make him eat since morning, he drank a little water, he ate rice at noon, he vomited that too. So I deliberately asked him if he wanted to eat anything.
First he said he would eat paratha and chicken chaap. Then he said to buy sweets for him and then he told me to take two pieces of pudding and I will eat them. So I bought everything according to his words. After buying, I came back home by rickshaw. Actually, I like fulfilling these small wishes of my sons a lot more. Because I think their wishes are very important to me. Who else would they talk to about their wishes. A mother always wants to fulfill the wishes of her children, in the same way, I also try to fulfill their wishes with everything I have, Alhamdulillah, after giving him medicine, my son ate a little bit of all the food. Seeing that, I actually liked it a lot more. Maybe I could not buy this love even with any expensive money. But I feel that this love is the best wealth in my life.
Parents are always there to fulfill the wishes of their children, but in some cases, we cannot fulfill our wishes even if we want to because we are not able to do so. Because of our lack of ability, we cannot hold on to our tasks properly. Time will pass from your life, but you should not forget to fulfill the wishes of your children. A living person can do everything if he tries. A life is a life, if a person tries, if he has the strength, he can walk, then why can't you fulfill the wishes of your children? Of course you can. You have never tried. Maybe your child asked you for something, you said you would give it to him, but later you are not able to give it to him, but this is often seen as a lie. When we call our children to eat, we say we will give you this, we will give you that, but later we cannot give it to him, but this is a lie told to him.
Huzoor said that such things should never be said. You should only say as much as you can. You want to do something for your son but suddenly you face some problem due to which you are not able to do it. It does not mean that you have not moved forward towards him or you have not tried to fulfill his dream. Of course you have done it. Maybe there is some problem due to which. You could not complete that task. It does not mean that you cannot. Of course you can. You should try to fulfill those small desires. Try to grasp his desires properly. Whatever else a person wants in life, he can definitely do something. You can also continue to fulfill small desires. But yes, you must teach them lack. If they do not learn lack, they will not understand how they will live without you. They will not understand how to manage their life without you. Raise them in such a way that they understand how you really want to raise them. How you really wanted to leave them in this world. Of course, give them the opportunity to walk in the path of Allah.