I am saying from historical experience that a person cannot become happy with his family even after trying his whole life. If your husband does not have money, you will never be a good person to your family. In this case, no matter how hard you work, no matter how much you suffer, it will not happen. And the most necessary thing in this world is money. The more money you have, the more people will give you importance. Suppose I have no money and I am a woman. There are many ways to earn money, but many people take shortcuts. I cannot do it, which is true and it is not given to me. I have to keep trying, that is, I have to fight.
How long will you keep your house until you get money? You have to be patient and move forward little by little. There are some people who do a lot for money, and some people who sleep on money. Those people who work hard all day but fall asleep in the evening. Some people only see their own needs. In Dhaka city, you will see many people sleeping on the side of the road, especially in the middle of the big roads, where there is a small place for people to walk. Many people sleep at night in that place. They have no place to live. They have no place to stay because Dhaka city is a source of income or a place of income.
Every person goes there to earn income. Not many people have the ability to stand by the people lying on the side of the road. Many people have, but they express it through videos. I will say, brother, did you do this yourself? If Allah himself had not blessed you and helped you, then would you have been able to go to this place today? You would never have been able to do this. Because do you know that through you, that person is helped to survive in his world, but there are some people who only see from afar and come closer and help someone. Many people forget this.
Not for hard work. If you think you can't do this job, it won't be given to you. I think you should definitely try. Brother, money is such a thing. If you hold money in front of a wooden doll, many people's mouths will say that the wooden doll will also talk. I don't know for sure, but I think people are more dangerous than wooden dolls. People are very poisonous. The pride of money destroys people to such an extent that it may not be possible to explain it. Every person needs money in their life. But some people kill people for money, some people kill their loved ones for wealth.
I don't know how right it is to do these things, but I think we should refrain from doing wrong. In many cases, you will see that people think that they started in the name of Allah, that is, they are robbing someone's house, then they rob someone's house, then they say Bismillah, they rob someone's house, then they say Bismillah, they steal and say I started in the name of Allah, Allah will definitely help me. You are doing wrong, you are trying to take away the rights of others, and you are thinking in your heart that Allah will not help you at all. You will do wrong and my Allah will tolerate that. This can never happen. Just as Allah cannot see the wrongdoer, similarly Allah never forgives the one who tolerates wrong.
So what should we do? We should protest, but if we go to protest, you will have problems. Nowadays, people get angry when they talk. I have seen this for a long time. If you say something in your family, the problem will start. If you discuss something in your family, there is a worse person in this world than you. You have to think about whether there is a second time that you are not able to do anything. The issue is not that you are not able to do anything. The issue is money. You earn money. You have a lot of money. Even if you do wrong things, you will say that you are good. Many people may laugh at my words. I have nothing to do with it. What I am saying is true. Some people will treat you well just because you have money.
If you have money, people will swarm around you like bees, but when you don't have money, they won't be around you, let alone your body, because of which people will keep a distance from you, not only from people but also from family members. You will understand this well. People are helpless without money. If you have money, you can help everyone. If you have money, you can be good to everyone. Money is something that can change your life. So, no matter what, you should earn money in life, not too much, but you should definitely earn some money to live on. Anyway, I want everyone to be good, but I never thought that I would lose to this money one day.
There is no point in making fun of someone's bad times. Is there any guarantee that that time will not happen to you? Anything can happen at any moment. Maybe you are fine for a while, but what will happen can be much worse than that. That is why it is said that instead of making fun of someone's bad times, help them if you can and be with them if possible. If not, then don't make fun of them but rather leave that place. Time is such a great teacher that even after teaching us so much, we cannot understand it properly.
Laughter, jokes, tears, everything, but our life, learn to enjoy this life properly, anything can happen at any moment, today you are here, tomorrow you may not be there, so enjoy life beautifully, you too, be well. Alhamdulillah, a new morning will appear, I am much happier thinking that I am still alive in this world. How many people like us have left this world, but I still give thanks. The time was very suitable to enjoy the morning weather, which seemed very good to me.
Anyway, I did some work in the morning and then completed my housework. I was feeling good because the weather in the morning was very beautiful, the fog was beautiful all around. This is how the seasons change and this change of seasons is teaching us something new. We are entering winter again and it makes me very happy to think that after many years, we will get the month of Ramadan in winter. When we were young, the month of Ramadan was in winter, but thinking that we will get it at this time makes me feel good.
I finished the morning chores and got everything ready for cooking in the afternoon. After cooking, I spent some time tending to my plants. I actually watered the plants and nothing could be kept because of the rats. The rats have become so clever that they are eating the tops of my plants. Which is actually very bad for me. So today I decided to put a net in the plants. But I could not put the net properly and I needed a stick, so I thought that tomorrow, God willing, I will cut the sticks and then arrange the net.
Then I noticed that I started coughing excessively. In fact, I have a lot of problems when I cough when I sweat excessively. I quickly came and took some cough medicine. After taking the cough medicine, my body condition got worse and I don't know what to do. I quickly went to bed and my body started to shake. I was in a coma. It felt like the world had completely stopped. I don't even know when I fell asleep. I woke up at 2:30 pm. Then I got up and first took a bath, prayed, and then fed my younger son. The older son was not at home because yesterday was Friday and he had gone to visit his grandmother's house.
After that I spent some time on my mobile phone and then in the afternoon I went to the market to offer Asr prayers. In fact, my condition was getting worse day by day. I consulted a doctor and he said that the season is changing and you already have this cough problem which is why it is happening. Be patient. Inshallah everything will be fine. After that I bought some things for the house and bought things for our food and bought my favorite pudding. Then I went home and after offering Maghrib prayers, I sat down to study with my boys. When they finished studying, I fed my younger son dinner. I went to bed without eating and thus I spent another day of my life. Wishing everyone good health, I am saying goodbye here like today, may Allah have mercy on me.