A person can never be loved by everyone even if he tries a thousand times. A person can never please everyone even if he tries a thousand times. This is natural. I am not telling any story or novel. This is real. I am not telling anything from anyone's story. I am sharing my real life experiences with you. I accept that people are bad, but not as bad as people are constantly making me bad in front of everyone. I have tried to check people not once but many times. But if any of my distant relatives hurt me, I have no problem with it. But if those who are always by my side hurt me, to be honest, I cannot accept it and I do not want to accept it. Why should I accept those who hurt me even after doing so much for them?
Sometimes some people's behavior seems unusual. Sometimes some people's behavior seems completely unreasonable. I think, should I have a good relationship with them or say something nice to them? Should I say anything to them? I don't understand what I should do. What should I do? Can I convince this person that I want to be a better option than them? I want to be better than them? I want them to be with me and treat me well? Their behavior makes me dream of living a new life. But not once, not many times, when I saw them feeling comfortable with someone else, not me, wanting to be good with someone else, not me, wanting to reorganize their life with someone else, then to be honest, there is nothing left to say. They only like to listen to the back stories. They like to know what is going to happen in the future. No one wants to hear these. Everyone finds their back stories much sweeter. I know that the events that happened in the past have a much greater effect on people's lives.
But that doesn't mean that we will dwell on the past. The competition is over. What happened in the past is our past. Even if we want to, can we change anything about it? Even if we want to, can we go back there and fix the events of our past? Even if we want to, we can't bring that time back to our lives. But yes, if we want, we can change our future. We can enjoy the time we have rightly. But how many people have this thought? Everyone only dwells on the past. Your past will never play an effective role in making your life beautiful. The past is gone. You must accept the present. If you cannot accept the present, what will you do with your past? Whatever happened is gone. Even if you want, you cannot go back to that time and repeat those events. If you want, you can definitely make your future bright.
Suppose a big event has happened in your life in the past that I cannot forget even if I want to or something is happening that we can never accept but if you and I want to, can we go back in time and rearrange those events in our own way? No, we can never do that. It will never be possible even if we want to. We have to keep trying, but even if we keep trying, it is never possible. But yes, you can definitely change the future while standing in the present. There are some people among us who only like to dwell on their past, which is all they do. With time, many things happen and we try to remember these events, but even if we remember, can you change the events of your past? People dream again even after being deceived not once but many times.
In the attempt to fulfill that dream, people constantly struggle in the attempt to fulfill that dream and there are some people among us who are only busy fulfilling their own dreams. No one is responsible for fulfilling that dream. In fact, you have to fulfill your dreams. That person who doesn't say that if you are hungry, you have to eat. No one will come and say, "You must be hungry, give me food, come and eat food." Such people will have less time at present. Everyone only thinks about themselves. In fact, thinking about themselves, you don't even know what you will do one day. In our present time, I am very familiar with a person who can say "close" at once. He always thinks about himself. He never has to help anyone or do something for his family. I have never seen such thoughts in him. The truth is that he always tries. How can I be good?
At the end of the day, as far as I can see, he is doing well but something is frustrating him, something is not allowing him to be well, Alhamdulillah, he has become a good money owner, he has a house and a car, everything is fine, but there is not much peace in his mind, some unrest is constantly eating him up. Does this mean that if you were with your family, this would never have happened. If you were with your loved ones, this would never have happened. Loneliness gives people self-respect. I myself accept that, but that does not mean that you will abandon your entire family and think only of yourself and go your own way. Never do that. Yes, if someone does not respect you, you can move away from there, but that does not mean that you will abandon your family. At the end of the day, your family must consider you as one of their members. You feel that your family is neglecting you today and will continue to do so tomorrow. You have to accept that.