It’s the word that no one ever wants to hear: cancer.
Our parents or grandparents might have heard that word and considered it an automatic death sentence. But today's focus on prevention, early detection, and treatment means that people who are diagnosed with cancer often have a very good chance of beating the disease.
Cancer, unfortunately, is a fairly common affliction. If you have not already, there’s a high likelihood that you’ll eventually know someone who’s fighting the disease.
And even more unfortunate (or “unjust” is a better description) - There is a gap in care for those in need.
World Cancer Day has launched a three-year initiative to inspire change and mobilize action to “Close the Care Gap.” You can find out how you can get involved at https://WorldCancerDay.org
But at a local, personal level, you can also help close the gap as a cancer caregiver
Consider these ways to support and care for someone with cancer:
1. Be Available. Ask...and then help to the degree and level that you are willing to be and is desired by the one with cancer.
2. Be an Advocate. To the level agreed to, you could help coordinate their health care and support them in conversations with the medical team providing care.
3. Be a Doer. Can you help with their daily “to do’s”? – activities of daily living like meal preparation, bathing, dressing, transportation to appointments, housework, monitoring and dispensing medicines.
4. Be Sensitive. If you’ve ever needed to be aware of someone’s feelings, it’s when a friend is coping with cancer. Your friend might be feeling cranky and annoyed. Or crying and depressed. Listen. By your presence and intentional listening, let them know that what they say matters to you.
5. Be Aware. You might be devastated about the news that your relative or close friend has cancer. Be aware of your own feelings and the importance of self-care. Remember, in all your caregiving for him/her, set aside some caregiving time for you.
6. Be positive. Many people survive cancer these days. At every opportunity, acknowledge your loved one’s efforts and commitment to do whatever is necessary for addressing the health challenges he/she is facing.
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For more information about cancer and caregiving, visit the sites in the Resources below. You can be a consistent caregiver to a loved one fighting cancer – and take action to “close the care gap” around the world
RESOURCES
National Cancer Institute
American Cancer Society
https://www.worldcancerday.org/about/2022-2024-world-cancer-day-campaign