It is easy to just keep doing what we’ve done before.
Too often we charge ahead when it would be better to assess where we are first.
Now, it can be unpleasant to look back and acknowledge mistakes and shortcomings. And yet, undertaking an honest self-evaluation can help reveal what we need to do to make significant changes in our lives.
Before you prepare to start a new year with loads of new resolutions and goals, take some time to reassess your life in these areas.
Obligations
Ever wish you had more time for what was genuinely important to you? Now’s the time to make that change. And the first step is looking at all the things you’ve taken on that no longer seem important.
Consider each committee, sponsorship, extended family and friend obligations.
If they feel like a burden, it’s time to unload them. That may be challenging. After all, no one wants to let others down. But this is your life, and it’s time to choose those commitments that align with your values instead of others’ wants.
Finances
If you wish you had more money but can’t or don’t want to work more to get it, take a careful look at your finances.
Scan through last year’s bank statements and make a note of any recurring payments. You may wince when you see how much you’ve spent on unnecessary things throughout the year. Having occasional treats for you and your family is okay. But if “shopping therapy” has become a burden, now’s the time to fix it.
Make a list of the ways you could cut back without feeling deprived. For example, could you eat out two nights a week instead of four? Is it essential that you shop for clothes every month? How much could you save if you took your lunch to work three days a week instead of getting take-out? Do you find it fun to have four bazillion TV channels?
These are just a few ways you can trim expenses, so you can invest in the things that matter to you now.
Dreams and Goals
Many people cite not having enough time or not enough money as the reason why they stay in dead-end jobs, don’t pursue their passions, or make real changes in their lives.
If that is you, take the steps outlined above and reevaluate your obligations and finances. You may find these issues of money and time no longer holding you back.
Then, ask yourself: “What do I want really?” Is it to go back to school and start a new career? Turn your side-hustle or hobby into a business? Purchase and cook homemade, whole foods that support your health and wellness? _________ ?
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Choose to intentionally review your life in these three areas. Then, take the steps to make changes so the days you have before you are aligned with your vision and goals for your life.
Resources:
How to Set Goals
How to Find Your Personal Vision