The words in the title of my article may sound strange and confusing. How can a normal life feel abnormal, or vice versa?
Things that you often perceive as abnormal because you feel uncomfortable as usual. Feeling unusual makes you feel "abnormal". then your mind starts overthinking and creates fear and anxiety.
It's All Right Being Not Fine
Seeing other people laugh when you are alone feeling the pain of various problems, will make you feel like you have an abnormal life. You are busy making people's lives a guide for your life. In fact, what you see does not necessarily feel like what they feel.
Can you accept the failure and sadness you are going through? The more you accept, the lighter your burden will be. The more you try to scream not to accept it all, you feel you don't deserve it all, the more depressed your life will be. As a result, all negative energy rests on you. You will have a hard time seeing opportunities to be happy.
It's okay when you don't feel okay. Instead, it is normal because it indicates you are going through a process. Without a process, you will just be stuck without growing. You must be willing to process first to bring out the best in yourself.
The best things in you that you haven't even felt are the things that will only come with a process. It won't happen with you just standing still, doing nothing to avoid failure and pain.
Precisely the thing you need to be afraid of is when you feel stuck without being hurt but also you don't find happiness. You will only feel empty, lonely, and even more terrible you will be a happy person, but pretend.
When life gives us a lot of problems to solve, it's normal even if we feel abnormal! Other people have experienced the same thing, just don't tell you. :)
This life is normal, for those of you who understand the essence that strength can only be obtained by practicing mastering pain while practicing.
Stay blessed!
This writing is inspired by my daily life when I process many things. I wanted to take note of it all and maybe it's worth reading for you guys. Who knows. :)
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Anggrek Lestari
Anggrek Lestari is an Indonesian fiction writer who has published two major books. Now She is a full-time content creator. She has a goal to share life, poem, food content that makes others happy and can get inspiration.
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