If you will see someone cry. Don't laugh. If you'll see someone laughing alone. Don't judge. What we can do in this kind of situation is an understanding mind. We can make someone change what they're feeling. We can help someone to rely on. Comforting is important to those who will feel lonely and sad. Don't underestimate this kind of emotions because it can trigger things to do. I don't want to say right away but it's just a presumption.
What if someone will kill themselves? What if someone became afraid of anyone? What if someone feels of "not wanting" to leave? These are just possible outcomes because we misunderstood them. There's no need to be someone who will recognise. To be a friend of someone is enough to express what they are feeling. Not a special friend or just a temporary friend. It would be fine as long as we can prevent someone from being depressed. Yes, we should avoid that of happening. We can save lives by just simple matters because each person has the right to live.
A few days ago I wasn't feeling well. I don't know how it feels being depressed. I can't relate to other people who were thinking of ending their lives. Who was thinking that there's no fun in living in this world? However, when I felt down and sad. Questions started to pour my mind like rain. Like "what is happiness means? What is the reason why we live? Why do we feel the pain if we gave loved?" Actually, there were a lot but these are just a few of them.
I couldn't think well to be honest. I am writing this now but when I felt sad. These words didn't come into my mind. Perhaps it's because I was on the state of depression. Just a lower type I guess. I didn't think of killing myself of course. Even so, depression is depression. How deep or how low it could be. The meaning is still the same. In my opinion, we should not let other people think that way. We should stop them not to reach that state. We should take them from that darkness and show them the light.
From the intro of this. I already asked what should we do. Is there something we can to help them? What can we do to help them? The answer to it is a big YES. We can help them in many ways. It's just so simple that we will not think it's just a burden to us. By the way, don't think of letting someone to live is just a waste of time. Be a capable human being that can share the love with everyone. Disturbed yourself if it means helping someone. Take a little bit of your precious time when you feel like someone needs you. We never know that in the future you will need as well.
Just ask someone "Are you okay" if you think they're not. Just spend time with them even if they don't feel like talking. Just keep on talking even if they will not answer. Their mind is just focused on what's hurting them. Just let it be and in time they will feel like telling. They will start to think that they have someone to rely on. If that comes into their mind. The words and tears will keep on flowing like a river. Just let them be and let them release it all. Once it will come out. At least a little the burdens in their hearts will be lessened. That what we are aiming to happen.
That's why don't hesitate to approach people who are shy to open up. Stay there with them and let them borrow your ears. They need someone to listen. They need someone to be with. The most important of it all. They don't want to be alone at this moment.
Thank you for reading
