Many years ago, when our life was not so confined to the house, life was open and free, at that time, parents did not need to pay much attention to their children. At that time, a couple had three, four or more children and they raised them very well. Although at that time, children learned from their parents as well as from the surrounding environment. Since life at that time was not confined to the house, parents did not have to face much difficulty in raising children. And with that, every family was very big and there were many people in the family, due to which raising children was also a relatively easy task. But now, raising children like humans has become much more difficult. And since every family has become much smaller now, the responsibility falls on the parents alone to raise children and educate them well. As before, now, one cannot grow up with grandchildren under the care of grandparents. And now the surrounding environment, that is, our society, has become so bad that no parent dares to let their child out.
So basically, children are now growing up completely based on the upbringing of their parents. The way parents teach their children, the children also grow up by getting the same education. Although there are exceptions in some cases, in most cases it is seen that the kind of children are the same as the parents. That is, if from childhood the child sees that the parents are jealous, quarrel with people, and constantly talk harshly to people and utter obscene and anti-social words, then the children who grow up listening to such words from their parents also start behaving in the same way and learn to use bad language in the same way. Similarly, if the parents behave very well and live in harmony with people, are sweet-spoken and speak nicely, and do not have a jealous attitude towards people, then the child also learns the same by seeing the behavior of the parents. In the future, when children grow up, according to the behavior of their parents, the children develop very nicely and that politeness can be observed in them too. If parents are a little wise, they must teach their children in such a way that their children can become very polite and a person with a clean and beautiful mind.
There are some parents who make their children greedy for money and property through various words, always see relatives as unnecessary and lowly and try to convince their children the same. They never teach their children the beautiful relationship that sincerity and love should have towards people. Instead of teaching them to help the poor and helpless, some parents only teach them how to mix with wealthy people and earn money from them. When parents teach their children to be jealous of people and to push away their loved ones, they forget that they too will grow up and that child will grow up. When they grow up, the child who becomes a bad person will definitely treat them badly. If they try to harm people and are jealous, that harm and jealousy will come back to them one day or another. If parents continue to raise their children in such a bad way, then the future of that child is being pushed towards darkness by the parents themselves.
Because no good person associates with or wants to be friends with people who have jealousy and selfishness. Therefore, people who grow up in such a bad way become completely alone at some point and if they get into bad company, they become much worse and their future is completely ruined. Money and prestige are never permanent, but human humanity, good behavior, good manners, kindness and love are always with people. Also, if a child is constantly told hurtful things, constantly shown to be inferior, and forced to feel that he is useless and a worthless person who has no use in this world and is constantly treated badly, then those children cannot live or grow up with a good mind and mentality. Therefore, we should always teach our children to respect and honor their elders, just as we should always speak to them with respect. Only then will our children become healthy and beautiful mentally people and will be able to raise a healthy and beautiful generation.