Healing a toxic relationship.

How can we recognize if we are inside of a toxic relationship?

My husband and I had a fight and I searched in Google the signs of a toxic relationship for me to be aware if I'm also being a toxic partner and here it is...
35 Signs You're in a Toxic Relationship

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Since we are done recognizing the signs of a relationship that's being toxic. Now we need to know. How to Fix it!
6 Steps To Turn a Toxic Relationship Into a Healthy One

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Can you fix a toxic relationship?
To be honest, it depends. It depends on the level of toxicity in your relationship. It depends on you and your partner. It depends on how much you and your partner love each other. How much you want to make it work. There are no shortcuts or magic pills. Love is hard work. Relationships are complicated. And most of the time it takes a lot of care, awareness, commitment, time & effort to maintain a healthy relationship.

Healing a toxic relationship

Once you have identified your relationship as a toxic relationship, you can start taking action to heal it leading to a more loving relationship.

Right now, I'm feeling that I'm doing this to my husband:

Use of mean words and rude behavior leading to verbal abuse
One of the partners act overly possessive & controlling

I'm being a toxic partner. That's the reason why I researched for the things that I need to do to resolve this, right away. And since I'm experiencing this. I also want to share it. To provide awareness. Because most of the time we're NOT Aware that we are being toxic or we are in a Toxic Relationship.

Since I'm realizing things and I'm willing to change myself for my Kids and also for me. I want to be Happy. I don't want to be a villain. That is why I am doing this to know more about what I'm going through and to know how to fix it.

No one can help us but ourselves.

We just need to realize that we have our own mistakes. And realizing that we are the one who can do what's right. We don't need to blame anybody else or even ourselves. But what we need to do is to find ways on how to rectify the problem.

Quote by Anonymous