We were always been taught to avoid anger. And never make any decision when in anger. Angry words can easily trigger a defensive or aggressive response from the other person, turning a simple disagreement into a full-blown argument. When someone is angry, they may not be thinking clearly or expressing themselves effectively, making it difficult to understand their perspective or for them to understand yours. When someone is angry, their words are often fueled by emotion rather than reason, leading to impulsive and hurtful statements that can be hard to take back. This can lead to a breakdown in communication, resentment, and even damage to relationships. This is what been said in following Sanskrit lines :
वाच्या वाच्यं प्रकुपितो न विजानाति कर्हिचित् |
नाकार्यमस्ति क्रुद्धस्य नावाच्यं विद्यते क्वक़्चित् ||
Vaachyaa Vaachyam prakupito na vijaanaati karhichit.
Naakaaryamasti kruddhasya naavaachyam vidyate kvachit.
vaachyaa = to be spoken about any thing.
Vaachym = the act of speaking.
Prakupito = very angry.
Vijaanaati = rightly understands.
Na Karhichit = never.
Naakaaryamast = Na + kaaryam + asti.
Na = not.
Kaaryam = work.
Asti = is.
Kruddhasya = an angry person's.
Vidyate = exists.
Kvachit = somewhat.
i.e. A very angry person while speaking to others can not control his thoughts and discriminate between what he should say and what he should not. As a result neither his work is done nor is there any impact of what he says to others.
Instead of reacting with anger, it's often more effective to pause, take a deep breath, and try to understand the root cause of the conflict before responding. This allows for a more rational and constructive conversation that can lead to a better understanding between both parties.
