Every human being is destined to be insecure, insecure about life, insecure about beauty, insecure about mate, insecure about work, insecure about finances, and many more. But can we feel insecure too much? How to overcome it? I will share a little about insecure which can make you understand better how insecure we can have and how insecure we should not have.
Some time ago, many friends contacted me via whatsapp and even met in person to discuss what they should do when they are insecure. In this article that I made, I will also share with all of you my point of view and opinion in overcoming insecurity.
There are various reasons when they feel insecure, for example some are insecure because of economic problems, career, beauty, insecure because they don't have a partner, some even feel insecure just because they have acne on their faces. Hahaha sounds very funny to me but I understand what they feel, as humans I feel it's very natural, it's just that all of them have their own limits, don't overdo it when you're insecure because it's not good for yourself. It will only make us worse off.
After I listened to stories from friends who had discussions with me, I concluded why many young people feel insecure, and this is also happening in my own country, namely Indonesia.
So, here are 5 main reasons why young people today often feel insecure.
- Feeling afraid of failure.
- Too perfectionist.
- Strive to meet social standards.
- Victims of bullying.
- Always compare yourself with others.
Insecure is not confident about your self or your relationships with other people.Insecure is okay, but being too insecure is a disease.
When you see other people who are more beautiful, you can feel insecure, when you see other people who are more successful, you can feel insecure, when you see people who are married and have partners, you may feel insecure, but after that, you you have to look back at yourself now, you have to be more grateful for what you have, when you feel insecure seeing other people who have luxury cars, you have to remember, there are many other people who can't afford a car like you, even for a bicycle alone they can not afford. When you see other people who are prettier than you, you have to remember, there are many people who have defects on their faces, when you are insecure to see people who are married and have partners, you must also remember that there are many people who meet their death before them. married, those who are dead have never felt how beautiful it is to have a partner who can make your life more colorful.
Supposedly, when you don't have a beautiful face, you only have to do facial treatments such as washing your face often so that your face looks fresh and not dull. You can do routine treatments such as skin care, use natural face masks, don't stay up late, don't like to eat fatty foods, and there are many other ways you can do to beautify your face.
When you feel that your career has not been successful, you don't have the car you want, you just have to focus on improving the way you work, study harder, work harder, hone your skills, do what you've never done, you can also ask people for tips. people who are already successful so that you can become a successful person and have a luxury car in the future.
When you don't have a partner and are not married, it doesn't mean you don't have a soul mate, it also doesn't mean no one likes you, that mate has been arranged by God, you just need to prepare yourself when your soul mate comes, which you have to fix again is how is your job? how are your finances? What is your attitude and behavior? Is your attitude wise enough when you are in a relationship with the partner you want?
So, now you can't feel excessively insecure. A time will come when you will have everything you want, study harder, watch motivational videos, don't hesitate to discuss with friends you can trust, remember!!! God never sleeps, all your hard work will pay off, keep trying, don't complain, because I'm sure, you and me, we are all great people :)