I’ve made peace with being “one of those people” If those people are individuals who respect their own needs while honoring the needs of others then yes, I’ll claim that identity but If those people carefully consider their words and actions to avoid causing harm I’m proud to join their ranks . That waffi morning taught me that being friendly doesn’t require abandoning caution, and being careful doesn’t necessitate harshness but the most skilled relationship builders move through the world with both warmth and clarity with both openness and discernment.
They understand that every interaction whether with a stranger in a lobby or a partner at home is an opportunity to practice this balance, They know that words spoken carelessly can linger for years while words spoken with care can heal old wounds. As I move forward I try to bring this balanced approach to all my interactions as I’m learning to lead with kindness while maintaining clear boundaries. I’m practicing curiosity when I feel judgment rising also I’m striving to be both friendly and careful knowing that these qualities aren’t opposites but essential partners in the dance of human connection.
The woman with a gorgeous pet never knew she inspired this reflection, But I owe her thanks Her comment became an invitation to examine my own patterns more carefully to become more intentional about the words I use the boundaries I set and the assumptions I make And that’s a gift however poorly wrapped .
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