Hate can negatively affect our well-being, when you see the people who was inclined with you, refusing to come along with you, it means hate is involved. Then how can we deal with this hates, to deal with hating, we have many routes to do so, but first of all, let understand that, to hate is a wrong action, which we may at all costs do away form it, as it will on along run brings us more bad thoughts, if we do not pull our ourselves from same.
What makes people's to start hating one another
Hating is not something anyone have in mind to display, it happens for so many reasons, which includes:
- When we are hurt
- when people we trust lied to us
- when our interest is taking away by another.
- when they failed to recognize our existence
When we are hurt:
Human's being are social animal, yes! Is true, we relate with one another for our needs to be attained and we also help one another, when we see that our assistance is needed, but what Happened when we render our help and do not get same in return, hating, this is when you heard someone says, i am not happy with him, at a point like this, we feel hurt and that can negatively affect our well-being.
When the people we trust lied to us
Lies can poorly cultivate a better minds, for instance, when someone involved himself in lying, he is totally killing his self worth, because the things he lies of may be big today but would it still be big tomorrow? Maybe as times goes on, he would now get that, which he lied on, but what about the people's mind, do you think, they can believe in him anymore, because, Putting trust on someone and finding out that all what he has been telling you were lies can be hurt so much, they will not believe in you but they would only believe you to be a liar, they would stop associating with you and cultivate an unnecessary hate on you, which brought as a result of not associating. Lies can as well brings hate, we need to avoid same.
when our interest is taking away by another:
We all have needs and wants, as the day break, our heads can't stop thinking of the things we want to achieve, no man is an island of knowledge and we interact with our neighbors for a better results, either to get more ideas about our plans or to know which methods to be used in getting our challenges solved, but when we seek for ideas then instead of getting the ideas which we seek for, we were fool, it can also result to hating. And we should avoid being in such party.
when they failed to recognize our existence:
Recognition is very important in every body's life, when they failed to recognize someone who should be recognized it can also result to hating, as the person may feel that such acts to be of insult to him and his personality, therefore, in every occasions respect should be given to whom is due.