😍 Why we love? Do we all seek love for much the same reason?

There are social, chemical, physical, psychological and more reasons why we love. If I had to answer very precisely, I would have to talk about all of them, but my knowledge of those sciences is limited so I will speak today as a human being without labels.

I remember that I was only 13 years old when I wanted, as a future science student, to make my first theories about human relationships. I studied behavior patterns between my acquaintances and myself, I saw how they behaved and I knew that this love affair had much more logic than people wanted to believe, "love is magic" they said. This of course made me a strange and lonely person, really looking for the logic of love seemed to distance me from it more than I knew.

I remember Hive account@michelberrios was the first person to teach me a lesson about it. I thought for years that she had an exaggerated attitude, for me direct contact with someone, that kind of affection was really cloying and unnecessary. But, there was something that caught my attention about her:

Every day, she greeted me in a unique, attentive and above all free of prejudice way.

This is how I discovered love in a new way, love not only came from home, I had a friend! And I don't know if everyone understands the weight of that, the truth is that from then on my thoughts changed without realizing it.

I have met many more people, and all of them: those who passed and left, my partners, incredible people like Hive account@joelsegovia and Hive account@mirzantorres, my other family, all of them, they helped me understand after many trials, mistakes and difficulties that ALWAYS something new is learned and that loving does't have a formula has no limits and evolves.

We love because we like to share, we are born thanks to other people and we take our first steps in the same way, whoever they are, others influence us and it's ridiculous to think that we can grow as human beings alone. All those experiences of mine and yours we built them with others. Perhaps some contributed more, others less. They even hurt you or maybe you hurt someone by yourself, but in the end what matters is what YOU pick up on it and what you decide to do before.

We all look for love for “different” reasons, but deep down it's the same reason:

We want to be happy and for others to be with us

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It's impossible to forget those people who were important in our life, and if we do it, it's because they were not really valuable. Remembering them if we are not close to them and putting into practice what we learned from her or him is the best tribute we can give them.

Here I share a song by one of my favorite singers because I think these are the kind of songs that are worth it because they nurture the spirit, there are lyrics of betrayal, spite and more but sometimes we forget what really matters.