I’m surrounded by incredible women – courageous women, bold women, and strong, resilient, independent women. They inspire me. Today, as we’re celebrating International Women’s Day, I thought I’d take an hour or two to reflect a little on what that even means…
Since its inception in the early 1900s (amid a time of industrial expansion and societal turbulence), International Women's Day (IWD) has been a beacon of empowerment and advocacy.
From the 1908 march of 15,000 women in New York City demanding better working conditions and voting rights to the 1917 strike in Russia for "Bread and Peace" amidst World War I, the history of IWD is marked by significant milestones in the fight for gender equality. Over the years, it has evolved into a global celebration, championing the achievements of women while acknowledging the ongoing struggle for equality...
But, despite progress, disparities persist… from unequal pay to underrepresentation in leadership roles. Within my own field of cultural materials conservation, I cannot ignore the glaring gender imbalance at the highest echelons of power, despite the demographic percentages… Such imbalances not only reflect systemic issues within my profession but also touch upon broader societal injustices vividly portrayed in literary works like "A Thousand Splendid Suns".
For those who haven’t read it, this poignant narrative illuminates the struggles of Afghan women against entrenched patriarchy and oppression. A particularly barbaric chapter in the text had me feeling so very frustrated, oppressed, and angry on behalf of my sex, I had to put the book down and distract myself with a run...
Recent headlines worldwide continue to underscore the pervasive nature of gender inequality, whether through the gender pay gap, discriminatory laws, or the prevalence of gender-based violence. Yet, there are subtler, more “banal” everyday moments that underscore the stark divide between men and women. For example, does anyone stop to think about the casual way we women wish each other a safe journey home after a night out, “Don’t forget to text me when you’re home safe!”? Or the outrageous social tendency to underestimate women’s pain, “You’ll get over it”, “Take a Panadol”, “You’re just emotional"?
My hackles are raised, as the saying goes, and I’m in the lucky majority... I’m speaking from a privileged position, being - if I can be direct - both white and English. I can’t even comprehend some of the figures listed in Oxfam International…
However, with each passing year, IWD serves as a reminder of the work yet to be done and the collective efforts required to build a brighter, more equitable future for all. Whilst in some parts of the world we still don’t have bodily autonomy (take the boardrooms of men overturning Roe v Wade in rule against the reproductive rights of women in America as an example)... only this week France made abortion a constitutional right – presenting the universal message to all women that “your body belongs to you”.
There is progress being made. The fact that it isn't universal is just heartbreaking. But that's my naivety talking.
Anyway, tonight - to celebrate the strength of women - I took me out on a date. It began with cooking a nice meal.
And surprising myself with a ticket to Dune: Part Two.
At the cinema, I even bought a wee brew.
When I got back home, I gave myself a giant hug, proudly commending all the hard work, perseverance, and courage that got me through the last few years. By George, there have been some trials and tribulations.... But going through all that put me in this seat today - doing what I love.
And I told myself that it’s okay I’ve had to do this all alone. For it indicates that I’m so much stronger than I think. And that's not a bad thing.
Here’s to all the women out there.
Equality knows no gender.
Rise up, use your voice. There is no limit to what we can do.
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